people give u advice on how to get over a painful breakup, like turn to ur friends and chocolate. but what do u do if ur breakup is with ur friends? everyone thinks that i started this whole rumor, and lied, and no one trusts me. i never lied, but i told my friends what other girls said about them. the girls who had been talking bad said that i made it all up. so what can i do?
2007-03-12 00:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by moneymatters 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to add on i go to an international school , so there are only so many girls there that speak the same language as i do. and they have devided into to groups, both as mean as the other, so theres really no where to go.
2007-03-12 00:25:20 · update #1
yeah like i said theres no where else to go. and these girls dont care when i say i wasnt lieing the just say yeah whatever. i used to have like 13 best friends, and surprisingly we never gossiped or anything, but then i moved across the world to an international school, and theres only 2 groups of girls that speak english, both are mean, so its pretty much not possible to make other friends, so i just want to know how im supposed to get by with everyone hating me.
2007-03-12 00:47:31 · update #2
You know that you told the truth so walk away and find friends who will trust you. With friends like that who needs enemies!!! You deserve better.... go for it, dont look back!
2007-03-12 00:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, i been to that problem of yours. what i did was i gathered all my friends to talk about it. i told them that i didnt lie about what i had told them.that it was all true. i let them think ''eversince we had been together for so very long time since elementary grades... you all knew that i never lied .. not now that we are in college, do you think that i will just easily waste the friendship that we had build up since we were young? think about it! and tell me personally that i dont deserve to be your friend anymore!!! well, in a few minutes, they realized that i will never do that to them... in fact, i am the peace maker in our group..'' what i will advise you is to do the same as i did and if they will still insist or blame you for all of it, then, say to them,,, i love to be your friend but if you dont trust me no more, it will be useless... PLEASE FIND NEW GOOD FRIENDS THAT WILL TRUST YOU AND WILL NEVER TURN THEIR BACKS WHEN YOU NEEDED THEM MOST... FRIENDS FOR GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIMES IS WHAT YOU HAVE TO LOOK FOR....
2007-03-12 07:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly why it is best to keep things you know to yourself. If you can't prove it, or if it will cause someone else pain, keep the info to yourself.
Your so-called friends will find out soon enough. It just takes time. If they said it to you, they probably said it to someone else. It will get back to them sooner or later.
2007-03-12 07:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit all of your friends down together and let them know that you are not the one that started the trouble. If they are your true friends they will believe you and drop it, if they aren't then let it go and move on.
2007-03-12 07:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! Beat the living sh** out of them! I hate lil fuc**** like that because ive had to deal with them everyday in my life since 4th grade! I fu**in hate them! I know the feeling!
2007-03-12 07:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't sink yourself to their level...keep your standards of behavior high, keep your values and morals high, and rise above the petty bickering of those who are negative...
be positive, cheerful, pleasant to be around, and you'll attract friends who are of like mind
2007-03-12 07:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋