I want to go for job, but he feels that his income is good enough for a good living and also for savings. TRUE. We have 2 sons and he says, why should not I take care of them? I also feel, even if I go for a job for earning in mind, that is not going to make a difference in the family finances. What shall I decide upon?
2007-03-11 23:46:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you have your whole life to make money and have a career, your children are only young for such a short time and you never get it back again, there has to be a comprimise here, every mother needs time for herself, and its easy to think that a job may satisfy this but its difficult once you have made the committment to an employer. childcare, school holidays, when a child is sick etc etc if making money is not an issue there are plenty of hobbies you can take up and groups to join with like minded people in your situation, its not difficult to meet people, especially when you have children, go out and explore, the possibilities are endless, good luck to you, enjoy this time while you can
2007-03-12 00:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you fell you need something to do besides normal house work maybe a job would be good for you, BUT if its going to cause trouble with the family stay home and do what your doing, there are also tons of activities you can do out there
2007-03-11 23:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay home with the boys until they are in school.
If your looking for something to do during the day, take some on line college courses, to prepare yourself for a job for when the boys are in school.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-12 00:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would do you some good to get away from your home and get out in the world away from the kids. You will also feel better knowing you are not entirely financially dependent on your husband.
2007-03-12 02:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Eyed Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You failed to mention the age of your children. If they are of school age, there is no reason that your husband should not want you to work--at least part-time. It is always good to have a career, just in case something would happen to your husband--such as a long-term illness.
2007-03-11 23:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should never be 100% dependent on anyone right now life is great for you and i hope it stays that way but your husband could find another woman at his wonderful job and you will be left high and dry.if you don't want to work then continue your education then if you need something to fall back on you will have it
2007-03-12 00:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get a job, if you don't need one
men of previous generations died earlier than woman BECAUSE they had a job. It's not a glorious thing, Jobs kill you slowly, and painfully, thank him for sparing you that.
2007-03-11 23:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by shamus_jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ITS UP TO YOUI
2007-03-11 23:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋