I think I'm falling for one of my friends...?

Question

It feels weird when we don't talk at all or if we just say a simple "Hi" and nothing more...

I definitely think about "us" almost all the time.

How do I know if I'm really in love?

Answer 1

this is just my theory.. 5 things:

1. i get all excited or like my heart just jumped whenever that person talks or chats or texts me
2. you can't help but think about that person and when you hear a love song the first thing that pops up is you and her or just her
3. sometimes when you talk and after that person leaves you might think you sounded stupid infront of her hehe
4. you always want to be with that person
5. you might try to be the same, like if she starts reading a book, you go straight to the library to borrow a book.. or something like that

we're going through the same thing.. :) GOD BLESS!

Answer 2

There's no way to really know if you don't explore that avenue but you must honestly consider if you want to take the chance of losing this person as a friend if they don't feel anymore than friendship toward you.


You should think very carefully about what you really want here because if you make a move and tell this person your feelings and they are reciprocated then you may lose a friend and no one wants that.

Are you very close to this person? It could just be a closeness you are feeling and not love.


You would just know if you were really in love. The fact that you need to ask suggests you are just infatuated. Go for it - life is too short to procrastinate

Answer 3

When they are the only thing you think about, and when you are thinking of them all you can do is smile, and not a thing can ruin a day that is spent together with them. Butterflies in the stomach when they call and hanging on every word they say, the world disappearing when you are together. And when you are apart, there is never a glimmer of doubt or insecurity, you don't have to wonder. And lastly, not being able to imagine a day of your life without that person...then you are in love!

Answer 4

My wife and I where 'just friends' for about a year before we started dating. I can say the same thing as above, it was weird when we didn't talk.

What did it for me was this: we where co-workers, and I had put in my quit notice.I was going home for the last time from that job and, the thought of never seeing her again hit me. it actually made me sick to think that. I turned the car around, told her, and now we are married with 3 kids. the start of the thought still makes me sick... that's how I know and i suggest trying to put yourself in those shoes, in your mind. see what happens

Answer 5

You should think very carefully about what you really want here because if you make a move and tell this person your feelings and they are reciprocated then you may lose a friend and no one wants that.

Are you very close to this person? It could just be a closeness you are feeling and not love.

Answer 6

There's no way to really know if you don't explore that avenue but you must honestly consider if you want to take the chance of losing this person as a friend if they don't feel anymore than friendship toward you.

Answer 7

Love is truly a many splendor thing.....but you are showing some of the signs. How is the response? That is the question. You can Love somebody till the end of time, but what good is it if it isn't returned? Good Luck & God Bless !!

Answer 8

You would just know if you were really in love. The fact that you need to ask suggests you are just infatuated. Go for it - life is too short to procrastinate.

Answer 9

You don't all you can do is go with your gut feeling sorry I'm probably no help to you but that my view

Answer 10

try not thinking abt him much and this will work. i even thought abt celebrities like daniel, drake, jesse and i stopped watching t.v. and i don't like them at all. i'll be thinking that how did i thought of them?