ok so i have this friend "a".......sometimes she's really sweet with me but then usually she becomes really really rude with me.....especially when a guy "B" is around....she keeps hitting me,calling me funny names......she even calls me an ugly cow which really upsets me.....i have talked to her about this but she's never serious.......plz help me its imp!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 23:18:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thnk u all sooooooooo much u all hav solved my problem i donno which 1 to chose as the best ans......thnks guys
2007-03-12 03:09:49 · update #1
Your friend is insecure and immature---not able to get a guy so she is jealous of you---really a sad situation. Have a serious talk about it--tell her that you will see anyone you want, whenever you want--she needs to grow up. If she can't accept this--then she needs to move on...just be nice, and understand the sad part of how shemight be feeling--it just comes out in a strange way. She'll get over it. Be nice, smile, have fun, and good luck
2007-03-11 23:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this is 2 easy! yep... let the foot hit her where god split her! either place don't matter! Got 2 show this girl Ur knuckle game! u do have 1? she using u! she has low selfasteam and she needs Ur help 2 find herself! talking easy allows her 2 keep doing what she do! step up, giving her a taste of 2 handles ..and b friend's after! she will respect u if she thinks she going 2 have 2 fight 2 disrespect u!
2007-03-12 06:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That friendship does not work, i will advice you to leave her because you can not continue being friends with someone who does not respect you.
Consider telling her that if she hancies the guy she should tell him and stop embarassing you in front of him. Probably the guy does not like her because of her behaviour towards you. So get out of the friendship and have better ones. You deserve better than that.
2007-03-12 06:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very obvious she is jealous of you and insecure with herself. See, she puts you down to make herself look better.
And the people who are around when she does this they see it but just don't say anything. They are thinking in their heads, what a idiot. You must be prettier and have a better personality. You don't need friends like that!
2007-03-12 06:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by single mom of 3. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does it next time...walk away from her and don't say a word. Then continue to ignore her until she comes to you and apologises. Tell her if she does it again you will no longer be friends because she makes you feel bad. She is just showing off infront of the boy.
2007-03-12 06:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has got a crush on "B" and using you as a prop.
If the above statment seems true make the way for "B" .
At the same time she is smart enuf and dont want let you go talk it out who is more important to her.
2007-03-12 06:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by poke_a_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will in this msj i cant recognize if your a mail or a femail but if u r a girl then maybe that guy likes u more than her and she wanna him to hate you in order to have him 4 her and don't lit her call u names cause that will make you very week
my advice 4 u is to leave her and try to find a better friend
2007-03-12 06:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ditch this friend or she will cause troublle for you. friend are there for you the lean on when you need them not to call you names. i had a friend like this and i ditched her because she was really rude you me infront of other people now i am happy and married. if this person was still in my life then i don't where i would be. good luck.
2007-03-12 06:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a friend because friends don't treat each other like that. It's up to you whether you still want to hang around or not.
2007-03-12 06:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she fancies this guy B and she's showing off to get his attention tell her your being serouis and dont appreciate the name calling and the hitting if she doesnt stop then fck her off becauise that's not a mate
2007-03-12 06:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋