guys, help..
2007-03-11 23:16:11 · 15 answers · asked by kmstca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
people help me
2007-03-11 23:42:29 · update #1
im not a guy but i can tell you from personal experince dont love someone who is in love with someone elese your just going to cause yourself a big deal of heart ache I know because im hurting right now because of it. We cant control who we like or love if we could we would all be happy, so ur not going to just be able to say oh i dont love him anymore and be ok it takes time and its harder then u think it is but hang out with lots of friends and family people who care about you the most they always help threw things like this. Just try and stay busy as much as u can and then one day you wont even think about it anymore and be ok and your not alone im working threw this right now myself.
2007-03-19 06:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't continue actively loving him because it just takes a lot of energy and doesn't get you anywhere. Keep your sweet memories and start building new good memories with someone else. Date a lot and the chances go up that you will meet someone really special. Hide yourself away and cry and it won't do you any good, he doesn't care about it, and you are wasting time! Get moving!
2007-03-18 21:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you cant stop loving someone the love will fade in time you just have to try to move on with some one else life is nothing but hurt some times but you just have to over come them you cant help who you love maybe some day he will love you just dont try to had make new friends thst will love you
2007-03-19 00:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh thats not hard to answer.No. If he does not love you then why should you waste your time with loving him when you could find someone else to love you back.That kind of relationship always ends up in a bad way. Good luck and remember you will find somone else.
2007-03-19 22:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes,be strong and brave enough to face the truth and the reality,you have to move on,think about yourself and how would it affect you if you continue loving him,if youre really meant for each other,time will put you back together.
2007-03-20 00:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by andrew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! this just happened to me too, like 2 weeks ago so i put a question too and the best way was to just let it go and kept trying to look for someone else and ended up finding someone even better that does really pay attention to me unlike my ex. so don't give up there is always someone better out there....0_o
2007-03-19 21:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by hardass no.13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u crazy? of course not
get on with your life, let him go with whoever he wants
if he loves someone else that means he doesnot have any kind of feeling for you
oh yah mabe once in a while he comes to u to for sex
good luck
2007-03-19 01:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wasting your time even by allowing his fluttering thoughts in your Mind will Only and Only give you grief and Depression.
Forget him and be wise and take it as a learning leasson.
Never trust such Miserable Dogs.
2007-03-12 06:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love the person who loves you back. don't hurt yourself by loving someone who doesn't see you, you will forever be trying to convince him that you are great for him. you don't have to work so hard at selling yourself with people who are bright enough to see you for you.
2007-03-18 19:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant love (special kind of love) two persons at the same time. choose which of the two you really loved most.
2007-03-20 05:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋