Intercourse in Early pregnancy?

Question

Does intercourse in early pregnancy harmfull for baby, if so, for how long we should prevent intercourse. I heard that starting 12 weeks, intercourse should be prevented.

please let me know any web site about DO's and Dont's in Pregnancy.

Answer 1

It is now well recognised and accepted that making love throughout pregnancy is perfectly safe, in the absence of pregnancy complications such as heavy vaginal bleeding or the waters (amniotic fluid around the baby) being broken.

During the first 12 weeks or so, some couples will feel so excited and elated about their new pregnancy that sex becomes an intimate celebration of this event. This can be especially so if it has taken you a few menstrual cycles (or fertility treatments) to conceive your baby (or the pressure is off to 'perform' to a schedule). Or it may just be a pleasant surprise!

However, for many women the 1st trimester of their pregnancy also brings with it many physical changes and discomforts such as continual tiredness, nausea and/or vomiting, making their desire to want to have sex wane. This can sometimes be compounded by feelings of being unsure about the pregnancy and/or how her partner is reacting to news. Another child (or children), a demanding job and/or hectic life schedule can also mean that sex takes a back seat for a while. Try to be patient with each other at this time and be honest with how you are feeling about the pregnancy and having sex. Cuddling and reassuring each other of your love through this often tumultuous time of psychological adjustment can help keep you close until you are feeling more inclined.

For many couples, sex during early pregnancy also bring up concerns about miscarriage, especially if the woman has had a miscarriage in the past. It is now recognised that penetrative sex during early pregnancy does not cause miscarriage, and if a miscarriage is going to occur, it will do so whether the couple have sex beforehand or not.

However, even with this in mind it is still important to follow your own instincts and do what feels right for you. If you have experienced some bleeding during early pregnancy and/or have had a previous miscarriage (or you have cultural reasons for avoiding intercourse), then you may feel more comfortable abstaining from sex for a while during this time.

Many women who have experienced a previous pregnancy loss, or who have taken a long time to conceive, often feel they want to 'wrap themselves up in cotton wool' during early pregnancy, with some partners feeling 'afraid to touch' because they are nervous about causing a 'problem'. Not respecting your partner's wishes may result in them feeling anxious (or guilty) and lead to relationship conflicts. If your partner does concede to having sex, they probably won't enjoy it and may experience anxiety or stress worrying about it afterwards. Again, understanding and patience may be required.

Answer 2

It is fine to have intercourse throughout your pregnancy, unless you have a particular risk of miscarriage and have been advised not to by your doctor. There is no need to wait until 12 weeks are up if you are having a normal, low risk pregnancy.

www.babycentre.co.uk is a good website. There are many good pregnancy books out there that will guide you in what to do and not do.
But generally, you can carry on as normal throughout your pregnancy. It's not an illness!
General dos and don'ts
- Take a pregnancy multivit everyday for your whole pregnancy
- Eat as healthily as possible. Lots of fruit, veg and wholegrains
- Get some exercise

- Don't smoke, drink alcohol, eat mould ripened cheeses, pate, liver, shark, swordfish, marlin, raw fish

- Avoid contact with nasty chemicals
- Avoid caffeine as much as possible

- Enjoy being pregnant!!

Answer 3

Is it safe to have sex while I'm pregnant?
Sex is totally safe while pregnancy, as long as you are not having any complications, such as premature labor, placenta previa, or bleeding. Make sure you tell your doctor of midwife if you experience any of the following.

Bleeding After Sex
Leaking Amniotic Fluid
Pain During Sex

What are the best positions for sex during pregnancy?

Woman on top. While your belly begins to grown, man on top may no longer be comfortable, and can actually be painful. With you on top, this allows no weight pressure on your abdomen.

The Spoon Position. Both lying on your side, your partner can enter from behind. This also puts no pressure on the abdomen. You can also add a pillow between your legs for even more comfort.

Answer 4

I have been told that it is not dangerous unless you are having a bit of a complicated pregnancy.
When I was in the first few weeks whenever I orgasmed it was quite uncomfortable, like a strong period pain. I am glad I didn't know just then otherwise it would have made me panic. The best thing to do would be to take it fairly easy.

Answer 5

It's only harmful to the baby under certain conditions, which ur dr will clear that up with u and tell u if it's okay or not. Other wise it's alright. Warning though, you ma get cramps after, and little aches more than often afetr u have sex, because the way ur body is preparing for the baby, it's more sensitive.

Answer 6

i know that the 1st trimester is really risky, i didnt until after the 12 weeks when bubs is definently well and truly connected to your womb wall. doggy style is suposed to be the safest, but women hate it, as long as your man goes slowand careful. i did it on top you know heaven on a stick, rode him, what eva cause i could control every thing. missionary is hard cause he squashes you. the further along you get the better sex is for the baby. having sex at least once a week is excellent(with the babys father only though) cause the baby benifits from a germ thingy in the sperm. it helps prevent invections and some other stuff,at least thats what my doc told me when i was preggers and my baby is gorgeous and healthy!

Answer 7

Intercourse is okay up until about 12 weeks (or three months). I have actually heard that it is good for the baby.

Answer 8

I am pregnant and have been told that sex during pregnancy is not harmful at all and in fact can help towards an easier labour. As can keeping active throughout your pregnancy. Good Luck

Answer 9

As long as there are no complications there is no reason not to continue having sex up until the day of birth if you want to! The baby is well protected by the amniotic sac.

Answer 10

Like the others have said, sex is fine throughout the whole of your pregnancy as long as you have not been advised not to by your doctor.

Congratulations by the way!

Also, a good website is ivillage. They have forums where you can speak to other mums in the same situation as you.

Good luck!