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I have had some nasty stuff done to me over the years - people can be SO selfish and mean, can't they?

Now, biding my time and saying nothing and waiting patiently, I have enough solid evidence to get my own back on all these nasty critters, but I don't.

I believe in Karma and don't interfere and I believe what comes around goes around and that they will get theirs without my intervention.

Do you think I am right, or just a coward?

2007-03-11 22:10:15 · 12 answers · asked by Life's a beach 4 in Social Science Psychology

12 answers

I believe in it, to a degree. People tend to get what they deserve. If I were you I would just focus on being successful. That is the best revenge anyone can attain. It says to those people who wronged you "It doesn't matter what you did to me, I'm stronger than that".

2007-03-11 22:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jack S 5 · 6 0

I don't think you are a coward, I think you are a wise person for not 'getting revenge' so to speak.
I also beleive what comes around goes around. People create their own drama in life. And if you are the innocent bystander, eventually good things are going to come your way and that other person doing the harm is going to have bad things come there way. I've seen it happen so many times.
I think its great that you are moving on from these type of people. I mean, you don't have to forgive or forget, but being that you have the awareness that karma will take care of it, then you have nothing to stress out about.

2007-03-11 22:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Deu 5 · 0 0

In Karma theory, undesirable karma won't have the ability to be defeated by using doing good karmas. The account for undesirable karmas are separate. And the account of positive karmas are separate. the end results of karma won't have the ability to be mitigated. It must be enjoyed or suffered. there's a Sanskrit Sloka: "Avasyam anubhogthavyam kritham karma subha asubham; naa bhugtham ksheeyathe karma kalpa koti sathairapi". meaning; we would desire to constantly undergo the end results of our karmas, no count if this is nice or undesirable. No karma gets erased by using doing different deeds. sometime we would desire to constantly experience that we are actually not doing and that nature is bringing this form of condition to tension us to take a common direction to undertake that action. there's a asserting in Mahanarayana Upanishad: "Kamokarsheet Manyurakarsheet Namo Namah". this is an complicated element, which i don't choose to describe right here. people who recognize can understand.

2016-12-18 11:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Sometimes they will get what's coming to them, but most will walk through life untouched and unfazed and keep right on hurting others.
If they get "theirs" I would send an anonymous note to them reminding them of the thing(s) they have done and pointing out that Kharma catches up with them occassionally & to avoid future BAD khrama, avoid doing bad things to others!!!
If kharma hasnt managed to catch up with them, I'd give kharma a little help in the form of an anonymous letter or call, but make sure they deserve it, as they may not be 'bad', just stupid. But you'll have to be the one to determine that. Only help kharma along if they truly deserve it, otherwise...

2007-03-11 22:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 0 0

I don't think you're a coward.

I'd really like to believe in karma... but I guess I don't. I rarely see bad people get what they deserve (or good people for that matter). In fact, it seems like nothing bad ever happens to them. They have the best lives. Boo.

2007-03-11 23:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No I think you are totally right. I feel the same way. I notice when I either judge or muck someone, I turn or become just like them later. So That is why I try to watch what I do and what I say to/about people.

2007-03-11 22:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I not only think your right,i think what you are doing is healthy,not cowardly.I don,t know if you have heard of this before but hurtful actions and thoughts towards others actually causes negativity and rebounds upon the recepient. Its like for every spoken word and action,theres a reaction.Rest assured they will get back what they,ve given even if you never have no knowledge of it.

2007-03-11 22:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Patti H 1 · 0 0

Karma doesn't occur spontaneously,it takes time and sometimes it is even more painful...Don't bother yourself by those nasty critters and let the nature works for them.

2007-03-11 22:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Vocal Prowess 4 · 0 1

Coward is such a silly word, good on you girl, go Karma

2007-03-11 22:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by kate 4 · 0 0

Stand- bye.....It's not up to you to decide "WHEN", and "HOW", it's up to the person who will balance things out, thats NOT you, sometimes you are allowed to see the "Payback", if you are that "Lucky" do NOT gloat, use it as a lesson, you are NOT a coward, don't worry, they'll fall in a hole for sure.

2007-03-11 22:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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