ok if you are married or have a partner how often do you go out with your friends....?

Question

seperatley and do you think it is acceptable on both parties. please state your ages.

Answer 1

My husband and I often go out separatly with our own friends, it all comes down to trust, it's nice to occasionally do your own thing, when I say we go out I don;t mean bars and nightclubs, just out for a meal or a drink with friends, we are both in our 30s.

Answer 2

I'm 25, you should talk to each other during the begining of the relationship. You cant teach an old relationship new tricks haha. It is acceptable and needed to get a little time apart so you don't suffocate each other. When you come back from a night out with your friends come back and tell him how much fun you had but DON'T sit there and talk about how many guys tried to flirt with you. You cannot use any jealousy games ever when you have a night out with friends seperate from your bf/husband and that goes the other way too for the guys talking about how hot the waitress was and flirtatious she was. These game will only make things harder each time either of you go out without the other. It can also make things escilate by "oh he's out flirting with women so I can sit and do what i want too" mindset.

Answer 3

Well deepens.
If u work a lot, or your friends work a lot, and u don't see them very often, i see them like 1 every 2 weeks or a month.
If u have a r married it's not nice to go out very often to see your friends and live the other.
When u married you the 2 of u became one, and u have to always think if this is hearting the other,
U can go with your partner ur friends r his friends and his yours.
U can go for a cafe, but been out 2-3 times per week sorry but i think that this is 2 much.

Answer 4

I think it all depends on if there are kids, how often you go out as a couple, and what exactly "going out" means.

I personally wouldn't mind us having a night out with friends about once a week, as long as we tell each other when we're coming home and where we're going to avoid worrying the other person.

But this also means that the "couple" outings must be at least as frequent as the "friend" ones... I'd say 1-2 times a week is good.

Answer 5

hi geri i am married and am 37, we have been married for four years but together for 11, this is my second marriage, my first husband did not let me go out as he felt we should be enough for each other, my husband now is the total opposite and we encourage each other to go out separately we have friends that are mutual and i like to go out with just the girls on occassion and have a good old gossip and dance, i only do this about once every couple of months and we girls make a good old night of it, they will come to mine and get ready and we have a few glasses of wine first, my hubby babysits as we have three young children, it does me good to let my hair down and be me as oppose to mom and wife, my hubby also socialises with his male friends and we socialise a lot together. It is all about trust and there are no right or wrongs on this one its what you both feel comfortable with, it works for us and it is not something i do on a weekly basis so i look forward to my girlie nights all the more as they are sporadic, the most important thing is compromise and both feeling comfortable enough with the other, this comes after the years you spend together you become more trusting with age and the right partner. I am all for it so go for it and give it a try thats how we build up our trust in each other . emma

Answer 6

Hello - i'm 30 and me and my hubby go out separately all the time. Occasionally we go out with friends together and stuff or with the kids but mainly we go out on our own. I probably go out once every 2 months without him and once a months with friends and him. Obviously we both work and have kids and stuff.x

Answer 7

my husband (42) and i(26) both agree that if you are in each others back pockets you will fall out we take it in turns to go out separately and together but when we are out together we always sit with our friends but always give each other a kiss now and then just to keep the other one happy we both feel that you should enjoy life to the full

Answer 8

Married, and no - once you are married, going out separately with friends isn't a great idea. We're married almost 18 years.

Answer 9

it is acceptable for you both to go out with your friends every once in awhile just not every Friday or Sat. when you do need time to spend time with your partner and befor you say yes to your pals just ask your spouse if they have any plans for that evening first. have fun enjoyi am in my 40's to answer your last part of the ?

Answer 10

me 24 partner 28 maybe once a month each but we have 2 kids