i have never felt any love for my ;brothers; sisters ;or parents. that.s not the worst of it.. i have never felt any love for my own children.i was in love with my wife once.but she never returned any.the strange thing is; i will do anything for anybody. i cry ;when i watch certain movie.s. perhaps the reason i fill like this is .no one has ever shown me any love. please everone ;are there other people out there that fill like me.
2007-03-11 21:42:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nope. Youre all alone in this world. Quit whinning, grow some balls and be a man.
2007-03-11 21:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Laser Jim 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cindi is right but it can be a long haul. Ive been there and still have trouble giving and recieving. I have found the love that I deserve but only after a lot of heartache taught me how to give it. I have been told many times that I am a good person and parent but I was the one that needed to believe.
You dont have to think you are perfect just give love and some day in the future it will come back.
2007-03-11 21:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by IMRAEC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, sweetie. Everyone at one point feels like they are not loved. But thats not where love starts, it starts inside. You should ask youself, " What is right about me?" And the answers should be everything. Be happy about who you are, an obviously loving and caring person. And thats all that should matter. When you know you are a wonderful person that deserves to be loved, and you know you love YOURSELF, you will find someone that will realize that too and love you for who you are. Never give up on love.
2007-03-11 21:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love does not have to be this all consuming thing all the time.....lovecan be something that quietly runs in the background. I would wonder if push came to shove and one of the people you mention was under grave threat of somekind or emigrated.....you might find they meant more than you thought. Love is there.....for you also in the same way......it is not always demonstrative or extreme. Sounds like you have a lot more than most so appreciate it.....
2007-03-11 21:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. I didn't come to join you at your pity party. Is this where the girls gone bad party is?
Even in the Wing's song it says that we recieve back all the love we give. That is not a lie, its a fact.
No one feels comfortable with your crying. Allergies? fix it. Depression is a medical problem, fix it. It ain't healthy, otherwise.
Love is a giving thing. THE GETTING PART HAPPENS BECAUSE THEY LOVE IN RETURN. If you're so caught up in why you don't get, it may mean that you don't really give. Kids can really see thru that clown face. You need to change your form of love. These people don't OWE you love, if you deserve it, they will give it.
2007-03-11 22:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey man, you can't help who you are--but I am sure you are wrong---people must have gotten some love signals from you. How you feel and how people percieve you are 2 different things. Stop beating yourself up over this--you are generous, emotional, and honest---people see and appreciate that in you. I am 59 and never "LOVED "a woman as most people do--never married or had kids--but as a firefighter, I am always available to help--anytime--people see that as love--I was told that. Good luck, man
2007-03-11 21:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my partner always say he dose not feel loved but what is love how can we judge it when no one i know can even explain it i think that there is such high expectations with every thing in live we always feel that we are not good enought
i think that you are a very loving person to ask this question and the fact that you will do any thing for any one shows me that you care i think that that's important to talk about these things maybe you should talk to a doctor you may be depressed but i think you are just expecting to much of your self.
2007-03-12 00:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some ppl out there who just do not show love. My sister is one of them. if no one has shown you love how can you know what it is. I think it is ok not to love, But its when we do not CARE that we need to dig deep within our selves and truely start to wonder where our lives took such a sad turn. If you care you will be ok. I hope you start to feel better soon.
2007-03-11 21:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by holly_grimoire_1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife has may you feel like this. She has hurt you so you feel unloved. Perhaps you should try spending some time with your children. You will find someone nice soon and then you will know what love feel like. Take care
2007-03-11 22:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u care if one of ur children died are u telling me that wouldnt crush u ? if it would then you love them its just hard for u to show the feelings or even relize the feelings are there ...seriously not bein mean or smart but u should seek talkin to a counselor or therapist about this they can bring ur true feelings out..cause it does worry me someone could say they have no love for their own children ..but i think the loves there u just dont know or relixe the feelings
2007-03-11 21:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by touchmeforever2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get a dog. Dogs love you no matter what. A dog will always greet you with excitement and joy. I suggest a yellow lab or golden retriever.
2007-03-11 22:11:58 · answer #11 · answered by Rory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋