She says she doesn't mean to, but I notice it every time. Things aren't the greatest between us, the sex is almost not there. I'm just wondering if that is a sign that her feelings towards me have changed?
2007-03-11 21:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by G T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dear friend,
If she looks away when u kiss, its quite possible that u have a problem of bad breath.But if she looks unintrested in you all the time, or during sex, there might be some genuine problem.It always doesnt necessarily mean that she doesnt like you or her feelings for u have changed. As i said earlier, it can be bad breath, it can be nervousness, tiredness..anything.Or may be u r not doing it the way she wants you to. In any case, the solution is to TALK. Talk openly with her. Try to find out what is that she wants.Be gentle while doing this.May be u can go out for some movie or shopping or dinner, and when she comes in a good mood and opens up, u can start this topic and try to find out the answer. Proper communication is the only answer to ur question..become her good friend, and i m sure she will definitely tell u wats on her mind...
Best luck..:)
2007-03-11 21:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her? anything new in her life, extra stress? Financial worries? Perhaps maybe shes depressed? There are many reasons a woman looks away, she could still love you dearly, but be over stressed about work, money, the kids, and the interested level has decreased. If you think her feelings have changed evaluate the situation and if you love her try to make things better.easier for her. Show her a lil commpassion, give her a break. Are you still showing her you love her and are interested in her? It takes 2 to make a marriage work. Sometimes one has to work a little harder than the other. I am sorry for your delima, but if you figure out whats going on in her head it may help you out a lot.
2007-03-12 03:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please plan an evening sometime this week, for the two of you to be alone, to go out to dinner, and when back home, please sit down and have an honest, open conversation with her on this. Honest communication is so very vitally important in all marriages. Are you a man who is a workaholic? How much time do you actually spend with your wife? Communicating? As a woman, I would want my husband to spend time with me--just me. And not always want it to end up with sex at the end of the evening. I would need my needs to be met-not all the time, but equally. Helping around the house is a big turn on to a woman. It really is. And yes, if we had children, I would expect my husband to spend quantity of time, not just quality of time, with the child(ren). Help in getting them into bed at night too. In a fun, good way. I would want/need to be treated as an equal partner in the marriage. I have my role, the man has his. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-11 21:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just being polite and you both should sit down and have an honest talk about your relationship and if you can't do it by yourself seek help with a counselor or your clergy
2007-03-11 21:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by james s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw, dont worry man. Youre just FUGLY
2007-03-11 21:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Laser Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your breath smell?
2007-03-11 21:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋