does this mean i have pushed him away completely? i dont mean to twist words around it just how i interpret what he said
2007-03-11 20:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If he thinks of your everyday then I don't think you have anything to worry about. As for your twisting his words, it seems like something you'll just need to really work on. If you value his friendship, and you guys have an honest and open friendship, then ask him to tell you when you're doing it. Maybe you guys can dig deep and find out why you're doing it.
One final thing. You need to really ask yourself if you ARE pushing him away. And if so, why. Are you afraid of being hurt, insecure about yourself, or do you think he's lying to you about the way he feels? To really find understanding you'll need to do some soul searching. Get clear about what YOU want and how you feel, before you bring him into the mix.
2007-03-11 21:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Nuseed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do this all the time also. And the words that I spoke were often misconstrued to take on a completely different meaning than I had intended. I finally had to 'step out side myself, and take a look at the situation from some body elses views. And I discovered that I was not really hearing what was being said. Because of my own insecurities, jealousy's frightened thoughts, I dont really know. I guess that I just couldnt bring myself to believe the truth so I would make up reasons in my head why that person was BSing me or whatever the case. It was a very very hard habit or characteristic for me to over come, but I finally decided that I didnt want to always be sad or angry so I had to see, and admit that maybe there was some truth to those observations being made of me.
2007-03-11 21:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by firedup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem......
Why is everything twisted & interpreted differently, from the way it was delivered to you. No wonder everything is all screwed up. Get real, stop being a read between the lines or reading crap that isn't even there friend.
If your sad......say so. If he loves you, tell him to say so. NO BS. Otherwise we are all doomed for communication breakdown.
2007-03-11 21:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving up would not constantly recommend you're vulnerable, each and every now and then it ability which you're solid sufficient . . . to enable it bypass. Love is like giving the single which you like the flexibility to wreck you . . . yet trustin them to not love is whilst the single which you like breaks your heart .... yet you nevertheless love him with all this little pieaces Love .. in case you have it ... you wont want the rest .. and in case you dont have it .. not the rest you have will count
2016-12-18 11:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 ears 1 mouth
listen twice as much
you are not listening to me u asked the same question twice?
you need 2 mouths and 1 ear?
2007-03-11 21:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lighten up.
dont take yourself so seriously. enjoy, dont argue.
look to the fun side of a reltionship, friend or mate.
2007-03-11 21:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Father Ted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal with women. It always happens when we are nervous. its like heritage.
2007-03-11 21:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by Effiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some things only time and distance can tell...
2007-03-11 21:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by ladykitcha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋