Okay so this is the g-o.....broken down it is like this.....i have been going out with rick* for 4 months now but we have spent every single day together for the hole time. We have met eachothers family and are totally comfortable with eachother.
My cousin Laurie* always hangs with us on the weekend she is the same age as rick* and me. We went to the city the other day and they always walked off with out me and he just looks at her like it is more then just a friendship. I trust my boyfriend when he says he doesnt have any feeling for her but only for me.....but i feel it inside that he does (have feelings for Laurie*)..the way he looks at her...talks to her...treats her....it feels like...if a stranger had to pick out who was the couple between myself, rick* and my cousin laurie* judging on as if the day were video camera'd...the stranger would say rick* and laurie were togther....do u get me???HELP me PLEASE...i love him...do u think he loves me?? or am i just to in-secure?
2007-03-11 20:56:44 · 9 answers · asked by missing_something 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh, wow thanks i didnt know
2007-03-11 21:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by ihate c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would follow your gut. Tell them both what you think and take a step back and watch their reactions to what you said.
If "rick" wants to be with "laurie" then let them go for it. Why would you want to be somebody that doesn't want to be with you? How could that be a satisfying relationship?
I also want to say that it's complete crap to say that you aren't in love. The minute I met my husband I knew I was going to marry him. We have been together everyday since we met and we are doing just fine. Don't let people tell you that you can't be in love. It's your feelings, not somebody else's.
2007-03-11 21:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let 2 of them will stay together any time bring ur boyfriend away from laurie, if ur bf will be like to stay with laurie always then that is u are correct do what u want
2007-03-11 21:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, four months is not enough to be in love. I would bet my paycheck you are under 22 years old. Secondly, if Laurie is hotter than you then your bf would prefer to be with Laurie. This is how young men think.
2007-03-11 21:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by D in SD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has just been 4 months so I say you should be more cautious. Talk to Laurie. Don’t over react!! It is better to find out sooner rather than later!!
2007-03-11 21:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your insecurity, but never underestimate anyone. If he does have feelings for her then I am sure he will not tell you. Sometimes the people you think you can trust most are the ones that are the quickest to betray you or let you down. Just be careful.
2007-03-11 21:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is a yellow belly,immature dog. shame on him for scanning you cousin. it's obivious he has something going on in his mind that's not right. it could be that he only wants to get in her pants. that's how young guys are. if the three of you hanging out,why is it that the two of them left you....that is very fishy.....If it is based on looks,then he's a very immature. we all get old and things are going to sag. to people should be together because they share similar passions and have common interest.
2007-03-11 21:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in spite of how she taken care of him of their courting, She is your cousin and is already conscious he likes you. you have 2 alternatives? harm your courting mutually with your cousin and date this guy or do what's on your heart and not hardship relating to the outcomes? what kind of guy dumps one cousin for the subsequent? think of roughly that. good success.
2016-10-18 04:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are soooo insecure
tell them both seperately your fears
2007-03-11 20:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋