Are you obligated to tell them why you don't care to talk to them anymore? Isn't it manipulative and controlling for them to try to make like nothing happened with no apology or discussion of the matter?
2007-03-11 20:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They know and you know they betrayed you because they asked if you were mad about it when it happened....but no apology or explanation.
2007-03-11 20:43:55 · update #1
You don't owe them an explanation. They know why already, why bother wasting your breath or time on them?
2007-03-11 20:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what it is--is it really a big deal??? Too big that you can't accept that he made a mistake??? You make mistakes--so why not just talk it over--maybe an apology will come--some people have a hard time doing that so you can make it easy on them by a nice talk and see what happens---why carry it around your whole life??? Life is too stressful as it is--calm down, relax, give them a break...you'll feel better. It will maybe teach them a valuable lesson, too.Smile, be nice and good luck
2007-03-12 03:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a friend stabs me in the back. I will need to have witness so I can go to court for sueing this friend stabbing me in the back.
the judge will reward me how much damage what friend have done to me.
if you don't have any witness, tell this friend "shut the hell up, go away and get a life"
2007-03-12 03:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them about their behavior. I am not saying to get physical but they have to be reprimanded because if not then they get away with what they did and you look like a doormat. Without confrontation, they are more likely to screw you over again.
2007-03-12 03:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can choose to let it go. but then you know to be weary of them!
the same thing happened to me this weekend and i quite don't know what to do either...but there was an apology
but backstabbing is pretty wierd
2007-03-12 03:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,,your not obligated.Simply tell them to buzz off & then ignore them completely.
2007-03-12 03:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell them, i mean they were wrong not you, i would tell them to stick there friendship where the sun doesn't shine. u could do without them, cause no "sorry" they do it again cause they feel they can get away with it again.
2007-03-12 03:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ford's Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no apology, no explanation... this person isn't your friend you owe them nothing
2007-03-12 03:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont say anything just walk away from them.lol
2007-03-12 03:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there friend until the time is right and then crush them
2007-03-12 03:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋