Why do dudes get with fleshy women? And would you marry one?

Question

Is it out of pity? Is this what they mean when they say that it's what is on the inside that counts?

How about if you got married then your woman got fleshy? What would you do to remedy the situation?

Fleshy = Fat

Answer 1

Hahaha, I expect my love to tell me if I'm getting fat. My god, it's those idiot men who are too afraid to say "Yes you do look fat in those jeans" that end up with cows for wives.

Ever hear of fat girl syndrome though? There are a lot more fat girls who are willing to do a lot more in the bedroom and sooner than not. Why? Well, my lover and I suspect that fat girls are hungry and also feel bad about their weight. This hunger drives them to something that reminds them of something they can eat, maybe a sausage or a hot dog, and well they clearly like the attention. No man is going to go chasing a fat girl (unless he's borderline mentally ill like a chubby chaser) and hungry girls know this, they must make up for their lack of beauty and often hideous personalities with sex. Men who otherwise can't get any, go for fat chicks. Ever notice the men who are with the fat ones aren't exactly catches themselves?

Of course, I mean to say, 'it's all about the personality'...once you turn the lights off.

EDIT: My love and I are friends with this guy, who's cute, but stupid and stuck in a relationship with a beached whale. Why? Well, she has nothing going on for herself, has no other friends and no family and lives with him. Everytime he tries to break up with her, she ends up crying and crying and convincing him to keep her. He does. It's really sort of funny. I bet they'll get married one day simply because he feels sorry for her.

Answer 2

A lot of men like a woman with "something to hold on to.Many men find skinny women disgusting. If you are thin when you get married and then gain weight-- if you don't like yourself your husband might stop liking you too. Then you should put away the twinkies and lose the weight. But if your husband really loves all of you (inside and out)he'll keep loving you. If you get obese, that's another story. But a dude will not marry a fleshy woman out of pity.

Answer 3

you people are horrible. Why does it matter? I suppose this question would never be posted with a woman talking about how a woman could ever love a "fleshy" man. Seriously, love and marriage don't always have to deal with how beautiful a person is on the outside. I see plenty of "skinny" women all the time and most of them are actually pretty fugly. I suppose the cakes of makeup on their faces make them presentable, but time and time again men fall for their boy like figures, I suppose men who like that skinny of a woman enjoy looking at pretty men too.

Answer 4

Well if women didn't have flesh then they would be only bones, and then what would you do with a bonnie wife, I guess it would be easy to love her on the inside since you could see right through her.

Now if men married a bonnie women and they became fleshy then she would actually be alive, and she would be more fun to be with....don't you think? Remedy solved now give me two points baby, five stars, thumbs up and a high five.

Did I break the law? I seem to see Srg. Case here and there....creepy

Answer 5

I think alll of us are glad that we don't are not 'your woman' most women fleshy or not prefer a guy with brains and able to see beyond physical beings...

Did you hear that??? It was Karma comin to slap you back for your troll self.

Answer 6

I like a fleshy one from time to time - each one of them folds has a story to tell...

Answer 7

Maybe he loves her, and that is why he married her. That's just a guess.

Edit - To Lady Trinity: I absolutely agree with your post. However, I know Joe B is an idiot and most likely a very sad little Troll. Read his other posts and questions. So, I didn't want to take the time give him a full answer. Because frankly, he isn't worth it.

Answer 8

I have to say that I am truly ashamed of the women who responded to this question. It is pathetic. I think that there may have been one intelligent answer and this response is not directed to that person.
Instead of answering you the way you deserve to be answered most women bought right into your ridiculous assumption that in order to be attractive one must be very skinny.
There are many women who do not fit the popular anorexic criteria of what is currently considered attractive. For some reason there are a lot of men out there who are attractived to women who look like ten year old boys with breasts. It always makes me wonder if they are in fact really attracted to ten year old boys, period. Are they afraid of women that actually look like adults? Are they afraid of women that have breasts and hips, women who do not look like prepubescent girls?
Believe it or not there are men (real men) out there who are actually interested in a woman that they can talk to, a woman who has got something going for her except for the fact that she knows how to be skinny.
Some men do eventually grow up and realize that after they have sex with these little Barbie doll look- a- likes there is nothing left to say or do. Then they go looking for a real woman who has actually got something to say for herself.
For those of you who assume that I must be overweight myself ( I refuse to use the repugnant expression "fleshy") I will tell you that I am only 5 ft.2 and have always been curvy even when I was a size 6. Five babies and 30 years have added a few pounds but I am certainly not overweight. None the less I am disgusted at the women that are so quick to agree with this man who equates a womans worth with how skinny she is. Eating disorders are at an all time high. The diet industry in this country is a multi-BILLION dollar industry and growing every day. The belief that in order for a woman to have something to offer a man she must be skinny as a twig is blatantly ridiculous and for other women to be ready to buy into this fallacy is really sad. Every woman who replied should have told this guy what a fool he was for making the assumption that only skinny women could have anything to offer him. Instead they fell right into the ridiculous notion that all a woman has to offer a man is the way she looks. Right now society is telling women that they need to be emaciated and to have large breasts. Of course these two things usually do not go together so more and more women are having "boob jobs". The idiotic things that women will do to fit into some man's idea of how they should look is getting worse everyday. The really sad part is that so many women are not smart enough to see how they are being manipulated. They waste their money on diet plans, exercise programs, diet pills and plastic surgery, they spend their money and destroy their health, when all they need to do is find a man who actually loves them for themselves! However, judging from some of these asinine answers I guess that might not be so easy to do after all.
I truly believe that women who starve themselves and live for the way they look are insecure and unhappy with who they are on the inside so that all they can do is to appear in a way that they think will distract from their ineptitude.
It may be looks that attracts a man in the first place but if that is all you have to offer it will not take him long to figure that out.
Believe it or not there are actually men out there who are interested in a woman's education, her opinions, her compassion and her sense of humor. These men may be a bit more difficult to find but it is worth it in the long run.
Men like the "gentlemen" who wrote this question actually deserve exactly what they end up with and that is the worst thing I can about them. Then, when they find themselves attached to an empty headed, vapid, vain, selfish, shallow imitation of a real woman they will run to divorce court and wonder what went wrong. I hope they find comfort in the fact that she was skinny and that is all that matters after all, right?
Lady Trinity~

Answer 9

when it comes to love, one is blind to imperfections. a lover is accepting.
i, however, could love a fleshy man. i could not stand to have one naked in my home.

Answer 10

What is fleshy?