Lesbians and the mates they pick makes me wonder?

Question

I got nothing against homosexuality, but I dont get when a women chooses a female to be with that by all accounts looks like a dude, and vice versa (with guys) what gives?

Answer 1

Who can figure out women anyway????

Answer 2

Even the butchest, most masculine woman you can find is not at all comparable to a man. For starters- she has breasts, a vagina, essentially, a female body. Lesbians are sexually attracted to women, and butch women fit the bill; ain't nothing in the "rulebook" (heck, there isn't a rulebook at all!) that says lesbians have to like women the way society says a woman had to be.

Same with gay men who like feminine men- they don't have breasts, they have penises and male bodies.

Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Its all in the attitude...Many femme women are attracted to a more butch lesbian because in my experience they seem to be more sure of themselves,maybe the word i am looking for is confident in who they are,and old school butch women seem to be better lovers and partners,but then again mine are ex's lol..

Answer 4

Some straight women prefer guys that aren't particularly masculine; some straight men prefer tomboy types. Sex and sexuality don't have to have anything to do with each other.

Answer 5

Let me see if I can explain it to you: lesbians and bisexual ladies choose to be with a woman because they are attracted to and love other women. Every person has both feminate and masculine attributes, some are more feminate and some more masculine.

Answer 6

maybe you should pay a little more attention to what's going on (or not going on) in your own bedroom, instead of worrying what's happening in theirs.

Answer 7

A good point.