I met a nice boy at our school a few weeks ago. He was younger than me by a year or so. He was so sweet and nice and would always come and ask me to join him during free time, you know hang out. Lately we've been very physical with each other, touching and caressing and stuff like that. He would sometimes give me hints that he likes me a lot. ast saturday he asked me to watched a movie with him. I took the courage and asked him if he wanted to be more than just friends. His exact words were "I think we're better off just like this."
I was broken hearted. I emailed him after telling him I respect his decision, but deep inside i'm dying. What do I do now?
Please help me out.
2007-03-11 20:28:53 · 9 answers · asked by David Koehl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Chill.
Let me tell you something, you have a lot of emotion attached to your sexuality. That's fine. It's also normal. But also know that it is easier to act than it is to talk for males. I would know-- I'm one of those. lol
So don't let this kind of thing get to you. Come on now. You've been together and doing things that Gay or Bi males do. Go watch the movie already. Enjoy your time together. Those words that he said to you were NOT a "No". They were a part of trying to figure things out.
I hope you don't screw this up. Now go with confidence-- you were NOT rejected. Get a hold of yourself already. ( ;
EDIT: I meant Not a "NO." I suck at this sometimes!!! Sheesh.
2007-03-11 20:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there's nothing u can do but move on. Do just that, and maybe a new guy who wants u will come along someday. There's no point in obsessing about it.
2007-03-12 03:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me man, it sounds like he's playing with you. Or maybe, he just wants a fling with no relationship. I'd still be friends but I'd back off a little and see what he does.
-- Jazz
2007-03-12 03:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jazz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Respect his decision... carry on being friends but dont be used by this person.
2007-03-12 04:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and have much to learn. Go to the movie, hold his hand. What you have now will brighten your future.
2007-03-12 03:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont be so pushy just enjoy the ride
2007-03-12 03:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean, what do you do now? it sounds like he didn't leave you with a choice. like it or not....you have to move on.
2007-03-12 03:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out if you can be with someone who is clearly in the closet
2007-03-12 03:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cry about it.
2007-03-12 03:32:30 · answer #9 · answered by lando 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋