I am 4 weeks pregnant and my boy wants to have this baby. I am not sure about all this...and I have been reading about abortion in many webpages. There is a way to do it by just taking some medication since I am just starting my pregnancy. My question is do you think that if I take those pills to terminate the pregnancy my boyfriend is gonna know or is he gonna think that it was a misscarage???
2007-03-11 20:20:00 · 16 answers · asked by meli 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you don't want the baby, then why not give it for adoption. Many loving couples are out there waiting for years to bring a baby into their loving home.
Your bf also has a right to know and contribute to making the decision and if it isn't a law there, it should be.
There is no pill to do an abortion this far along.
2007-03-11 21:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just go for adoption ok. He has every right to know.
If you dont have a medical problem then you should carry. Abortion should be for medical issues or if your were forced into it by rape. Your doctor would have to do it. even then you might not find one who will do it for you if they are against it and will only abort for medical reasons
You will crush him when he finds out you killed the baby that was going to be his as wel as yours.
Can you live with the fact of killing a unborn baby? Cause at 7-8 weeks its heart is beating and you can hear it, and it has hands and fingers, small bones growing at 8 weeks ols,EVEN 6 weeks. It looks like a person befor it hit 7 weeks old. Its the size of a dime but yes its body is forming.
2007-03-11 20:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all there is no pill to abort a baby at 4 weeks. The only abortion pill is Plan B and its 72 hrs. So your only option would be a full blown abortion. And you seem very scandalous by lying to your dude. Although its your body and you can do what you choose you should atleast have the decency to tell him.
2007-03-11 20:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Oops! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In many states if you do not inform the father and ask for his permission whether or not you can get an abortion, the father could ask the authority to put you in jail. You have your right to have the baby aborted, but the father of the baby also have the right to say what he wants for the baby. Why would you risk going to jail?
2007-03-11 20:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on.. you are so lucky you can get pregnant and your boyfriend wants the baby while some woman go to all trouble to get pregnant, and some have no support from their bf. Of course if you tell him that u have a miscarriage and u keep a straight face (crying will definately help), he'll believe u, but do you really want to kill an innocent being? hopefully u'll think about this and decide against it..
2007-03-11 20:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by girlish_hue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A miscarriage is an abortion. They are sometimes referred to as "spontanious abortions". If you have any doubts, you and your boyfriend ARE NOT ready to be parents. Giving the child up for adoption is also an choice.
It is up to you who you tell about your abortion (or what you tell people about it). You should, however, tell someone you are living with in case you have a side effect (they can occasionally cause severe bleeding....and if no one knows what the cause is, you are more likely to be injured/die). In addition, there is frequently pain associated with expelling the baby (not as much as having it would be in 9 months...but it can be bad). In addition, I know I would have a hard time not having someone I could talk to about it and keeping it secret from my boyfriend...but that is me.
The person that spoke about jail, is just trying to scare you out of it. Planned Parenthood can answer any medical questions about it (I think a nurse can give you the pills, but you have to do it under a doctor's supervision in case anything happens).
2007-03-11 20:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by contemplating 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think its very inconsiderate of you not to tell your boyfriend that you want to terminate the pregnancy. He has every right to know that you are planning to abort. You should talk to him and let him know the reasons you arent ready for this baby, otherwise it could come up and bite you in the butt.
2007-03-11 20:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by arlene 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My sister in law had an abortion, be prepared for some bad nightmares. My wife had a miscarrage, she too had nightmares, still does. Right now your hormones are messed up in prepation for birth. What ever you do, tell him, be honest with him. Babies are all about being unsure of the next step. No one is truly ready for them.
2007-03-11 20:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Matt G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, you shouldn't deceive your boyfriend that way. It is just wrong and cruel
Second, you need to discuss your options with him. He wants this baby. If he is the father you should give him some say so in the matter
Lastly, if you don't want to get pregnant, use birth control
2007-03-11 20:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Si tienes el apoyo de tu pareja, qué más quieres en la vida? Cómo podrás mirarle a la cara si le engañas en eso, pide ayuda si quieres y ánimo, feganuhes@yahoo.es
2007-03-11 22:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by feganuhes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋