What is going on here with my friends?

Question

I go to church and I've known three girls there to have been my friends up there ever since we were little kids. Somewhere along the line, those girls turned 14 and 15 and started changing. I'm 17. Well, there was a girl that went to my church but then stopped going. I came across her myspace page and looked at her pictures, and I was shocked to see she posted her whole naked booty! I started laughing, then my mom forced me to show her what was funny. I thought might as well I ain't gonna see her no more anyway. But remember the girls I knew since we were very little? My mom got the idea to check their pages for innappropiate stuff. (All were public profiles) I treid to keep her off their pages because I knew they had stuff up there that wasn't right. They also had other things I didn't know about, like one of the girls had a picture of herself with her back towards the camera, her clinging to the wall, and no top on. All three girls posted pictures of where they lived.

They also showed their houses. Two of them had several sexually provacative pictures and other bad things on their pages. Now, my mom looked at their pages on her own, and called their mothers. So now all three girls deleted me off their friends list even though I didn't say nothing about them and they know my mom did everything. Why would they decide I'm not their friend anymore because they chose to post things on their pages that could have got them hurt, raped, or worse, dead?

Answer 1

Why be so worked up just because they deleted you from their space or smth? You know that what they're doing aren't good, though they may not know it themselves. Letting their parents know what they're doing is actually good for them, because if the kind of attitude they're showing needs serious guidance. You're not doing them any harm.
They posted the pics on public profiles, so obviously it's meant to be seen. They cant blame you if it attracted the wrong audience anyway.
I suggest you either help them realise that it's dangerous to do things like that (difficult), or you ignore them and stop thinking how much they hate you. Dont worry too much, they're just going through the "rebellious" teenage phase. They'll grow up. You can try to talk to them and understand why they do that. Most likely they just want the thrill.
Meanwhile, hang out with more friends and discuss it with them if you like. They know you better, and will probably have better advice:) Good luck!

Answer 2

There is one thing called free will. Everyone should do what they want to do and face the consequences. Now, it sounds a little bit incredible that a person that goes to church is showing their private parts on the Internet, but everything is possible. Your mom did the correct thing, remember these kids are not adults, they need supervision. As for you, you did not do anything wrong, you are a victim of the circumstances. Relax, you know you did not do anything, why bother??? If someday you have the chance to explain what happened to these people do so, i they understand fine, if they don't, alleluia.

Answer 3

You did the right thing, but unfortunately, these girls are far too stupid to realize it. They apparently know NOTHING about safe and appropriate use of the Internet. Posting pictures of themselves naked and pictures of their homes is so freaking stupid it's unbelievable. You are WAY better off without these sluts as friends.

Answer 4

they probably felt like you or your mom invaded their privacy and maybe they were embarrassed. just move on and don't worry about it. they weren't really your friends anyway if they got mad at you for something that was not totally your fault.

Answer 5

Obviously, they don't like your intervention . Let it be. Anyway your conscience is clear.