A Virgo and an Aquarius??

Question

would they be a good match?

Answer 1

Virgo/Aquarius

If you have fallen for an Aquarius, you intuitively want to be influenced by a personality very different from your own. Aquarius are quirky, untraditional, quixotic, idiosyncratic, curious, unconventional, forgetful (at times), and coolly objective. You are traditional, careful, thoughtful, detailed, curious, cautious, productive, and coolly objective. So you see, there are differences, but one or two big similarities also. Will they be enough?

You both are intellectual people, so the discussions you have will be lively and stimulating. Both of you like to absorb vast amounts of information and sort through what is fact and what is fiction. At the end of the day, you will trade interesting tidbits and stories, and have conversations swirling around the news and topical issues. You will never run out of things to say.

Virgo's gift is to create order and sense out of chaos, but Aquarius' gift is just the opposite. They take existing structures and smash them to dust, dissolving the establishment in order to eliminate what is no longer useful. Aquarius' role is to challenge the status quo, and your role is to piece together what has been broken -- the iconoclast and the conservator. Aquarius look upon the world with the critical detachment of a scientist; you look upon everything with intensity and in detail. You don't like disregarding rules, but your lover pushes right in that direction every time. Whether the two of you can reconcile your separate roles will depend on how much each of you admires and respects the work of the other.

Money can be a battleground for many couples, but not for you. You seem to agree on many levels here. Neither of you likes to be careless with money, and both of you have the ability to listen to the other when it comes to prioritizing financial goals.

The reason Aquarius are so forgetful is that they don't remember unnecessary details. If their computer can hold all the data they need, why keep it in their heads? You, of course, hold everything in your head: zip codes, the names of your neighbors' children, your next dentist appointment. They marvel at your ability to do this (at times they think you are some kind of savant). But don't scoff at your lover's inability to remember things; a genius has to be able to free his or her mind for more conceptual thinking.

It could well be in the boudoir that you two are most comfortably matched. You light up the house of sexuality in Aquarius' horoscope and thus, your lover will find you endlessly fascinating in bed. In turn, Aquarius' Uranian approach to everything is unusual, unpredictable, experimental and thrilling. Your lover is wilder and more creative in bed than you could ever be, and he or she will have to understand that this is something new to you and your natural reserve. This should not diminish your attraction to each other. Aquarius' emotional detachment might be okay with you in the beginning since you are so slow to commit. But if the relationship stays too platonic and does not grow in emotional depth (despite the wonderful sexual chemistry), it will be you -- rather than your lover -- who will cut the tie. You need romance and candlelight, and your Aquarius might think that's just cute sentimentality. Your Aquarius want a lover who is also their friend -- and you do, too, but if it's only that, you'll be gone with the wind.

As a Virgo you distrust desire. If you want something badly -- like love -- you hesitate, feeling nothing could live up to what you imagine, so therefore it probably couldn't exist. You could be surprised, so you should not take such a dark view of things. Your natural caution makes you worry that you will never find emotional fulfillment. Your lover, equally analytical in mind and spirit, feels similarly wary of marriage. Privacy and a need to retain individuality and self-sufficiency are so important to both of you that you both fear a loss of these qualities in marriage. Thus, it may take a long time to exchange rings and vows. Happily, your timetables are about the same. Your fears can be overcome in time, so don't fret; give one another enough space to get comfortable with the relationship.

Can this coupling work out? Can earth (your sign) and air (your lover's sign) mix well? This match is not a classic astrological blend, but it's still possible. Perhaps you have other planets in your horoscope that will make this relationship sing. Like anything else, your destiny is not in your stars, but within you.

Answer 2

Yes, in my experience, this can be a very good relationship.

The Aquarius needs to be very careful about not so often disregarding the Virgo's feelings, though, because sometimes Aquarius gets very wrapped up in their own head and forgets there is another person in the relationship, and that the other person's feelings and needs are as important as their own. And the Virgo needs to give the Aquarius a lot of freedom and understanding. The Aquarius may always forget things, run late, be messy ... etc. Only a Virgo that is really in love can deal with it, but if they ARE really in love, this can be a very good and balanced relationship. I personally feel these are very complementary signs in terms of each person's strengths and weaknesses.

This is NOT a complete "study" of the complex Virgo-Aquarius relationship. I would recommend you read some books on astrology to get a better picture.

EDIT to the fella below me: Heh, late and messy were just *examples* to illustrate the the types of behavior Aquarians can exhibit that are sometimes viewed as, how shall I nicely say this?, erratic, by other signs. Especially the fastidious Virgo. I too am an Aquarius and the most satisfying, balanced, nurturing relationship I was ever in was with a Virgo. I AM messy, and "my" Virgo often went 'round cleaning up after me, with a smile on his face. Because he thought he was helping me. Never mind that I didn't always actually consider it helpful, but I appreciated where it was coming from.

Answer 3

Virgo (August 24 – September 23)

Compatible Couple: Aries, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.
Doubtful but possible: Taurus and Sagittarius.
Dangerous: Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra and Aquarius.

VIRGO/AQUARIUS: You like each other. Virgo will have to make all the adjustments. Aquarius is loving generous, considerate but sometimes hyper-sensitive. Virgo cannot criticize Aquarius without starting a fight. Aquarius is proud of his philosophy which Virgo considers impractical. Yet, you could make this relationship work.

Answer 4

I am an Aquarius....

One of the best relationships I ever had was with a Virgo. We got along beautifully. It didn't go further because I was in the Marines and she couldn't handle the thought of me being killed. We still talk. We're still great friends. If we were both single, we'd probably date again. I adored her. She kept me grounded and focused instead of doing 500 things all at once. I helped her be more spontaneous and take more risks. BTW for the record, I'm NOT messy. Nor am I ever late. If anything I'm earlier than I should be.
-bounces off-

Edit for the person above me:
Strange. Most Aquarians I know are all real neat freaks like me. Maybe it's a possible gender thing? Most of the Aquarians I know are male and are all neat freaks. However, we are ALL erratic. Never denied that. Lol.

Answer 5

Although you approach problems and ideas from different perspectives, you have a good mental rapport. VIRGO focuses on specific details, and prefers to specialize in a certain area, while AQUARIUS takes a wider, more global view and looks for interrelationships in a large system, without as much focus on any particular area of specialization. VIRGO is more concerned with effective and precise application of plans, and helps AQUARIUS to practically apply ideas. You make a good team in social or intellectual pursuits. Your relationship may be a bit cool or formal, however, and hopefully there are other astrological factors (as described elsewhere in this report) to provide warmth, affection, and romantic or sexual attraction.

Answer 6

I've tried dating an Aquarius, and found that he was very hard to get along with because our personality clashed. I didn't like it how he always had to be in control and how he got defensive when I asked him questions...I'm a Virgo...but I did really like his out take on life, so perhaps it could.

Answer 7

in general, they are not compatible, but anything could work in love. i'm a virgo but i don't really get along with aquarius friends. but again, i'm dating an aries, and virgo + aries do not match in general. it also depends on your moon signs as well as every other signs in your chart. my bf and i have compatible signs in other areas of our charts, which may be the reason we're together.

Answer 8

I was married to one. It was the best and worst experience of my life. If i had to do it all over again I would do it in a heart beat.

Answer 9

good match

Answer 10

no they are totaly incompatable are you really this stupid who cares about this worthless crap its bull shi@@