where does one begin?
2007-03-11 17:57:11 · 18 answers · asked by ayleiah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you ever heard the story about the people who roamed the earth joined together, They were so happy with there other halves that they walked around as happy as can be all day long. The (greek) gods were so jealous of there happiness that they sent a bolt of lightning down and seperated them into different places. After that these people roamed the earth looking for there other halves so they could feel that same happiness that they once felt. Yes there is someone out there for you you just haven't found them yet or they haven't found you. Be patient your true happiness will come.
2007-03-11 18:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after 25 years of misery and at your age, I would think you would be looking to relish in your solitude for a little while. What's the big hurry, sweetie? While you're not tied down to a man, you can go out and do lots of things that are all about just YOU! Take a break from it all and enjoy this time to heal and grow your independence. You might find love literally falling into your lap if you sit still for a little while. Love yourself and do something to show yourself how special you really are. You may find that having someone else around to cater to cramps your style after you see how nice it is to be free. That would be an ideal way to begin. Best wishes, dear.
2007-03-11 18:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try posting an ad in the want pages of your local newspaper with a post office box attached, wanting to meet someone for a friend ship relationship and possible love relationship tell them your interest what you look like ect in the ad and if there interested in you to send you a letter describing them selves to you and tell them to send photo. Now you choose from your responses write them back be pen pals for a while then if you think there's common ground arrange to meet each other at restaurant or something then start dating hope things go well sorry to hear about the bad marriage.
2007-03-11 18:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by dianemelloniemarlenejerryginder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that you finally got out of that marriage! We all know people who we say.."will they just separate already?" it's obvious to see couples who are NOT meant to be together..I guess I'm the opposite of the way you are..33 never been married...I'm afraid of spending/wasting time on an unhappy relationship..i remain guarded, etc...Hmmm I would def not rush back into anything...I know you have an empty feeling of "being alone"...You are usta having someone..but yeah some people do find and have very loving relationships...i think online dating is great..you can really get to know someone IF both parties are honest..PLEASE take your time and don't rush..or you could possibly be back in the same situation you were!
2007-03-11 18:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are literally thousands of guys out there looking for exactly what you have to offer which is...? Are you a kind person? Are you caring? Do you expect someone to do a lot for you or are you just happy to have a partner that cares about you?
You're putting the cart before the horse. Quit worrying about finding someone to love. Be as sweet and lovable as you possibly can and your love will find you. Circulate around to the places where the type of person you are looking for hangs out. If you don't like the type of people that hang out in bars, then that's one of the places to avoid. If you like the type of people tghat hang out at church socials, then that's where you want to spend most of your time.
The key issue here is to get out of yourself and start giving to others. Volunteer work really puts you in touch with a lot of caring people. Children's Hospital is always looking for good, caring volunteers. The Red Cross always needs people to help out. Every church of every denomination has constant needs for reliable volunteers. Forget about yourself. Concentrate on helping people and it will come back to you a hundred times over.
2007-03-11 18:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by pianofritz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be found at any age. People find love at the weirdest times and places. Don't push for it and look for it in the wrong places let it come to you, you will be surprised and Happy to begin your life with a new, interesting, fun-loving partner. As the old saying goes, their is someone for everyone!!
2007-03-11 18:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take care of yourself. Start doing things you like to do. Join a gym, travel, buy yourself clothes and shoes you've always wanted. Or that diamond bracelet you might have always wanted. Pamper yourself first. Do sports, find single friends.
2007-03-11 18:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. 45 is YOUNG!! (I'm 39 don't blow my perception! lol)
To begin, live your life exactly they way you want to. You'll meet someone along the way.
Good luck :)
2007-03-11 18:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. Jesus loves you and I suggest you get to know him better - seek salvation, repent, join a local church - you will find someone who will appreciate you and love you. Don't rush into anything just yet! God bless you!!
2007-03-11 18:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to any of the other questions go to the secret.tv buy the dvd an put it out there what u want and the right guy WILL come to u it's all proven.
2007-03-11 18:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Brunette Diamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋