I had a one day thing with a guy and i had a miscarriage.should he know?
2007-03-11 17:49:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I had a one day with a guy.Should he know.I dont talk to him alot but it was his child and should he hurt alittle as much as i do?
2007-03-11 17:58:23 · update #1
.I dont talk to him alot but it was his child and should he hurt alittle as much as i do?
2007-03-11 17:58:46 · update #2
If he knew you were pregnant he is bound to find out you had a miscarriage (it would be pretty obvious when you don't have a baby). If he doens't know your pregnant it up to you whether you tell him you've had a miscarriage. I personally think he has a right to know as he has lost a baby too and it would be better hearing it from you than from someone else.
2007-03-11 19:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had a miscarriage. Ofcourse you would possibly want to tell him. keep him contained in the loop. it might want to be incorrect now to not. you'll might want to tell him if it survived correct? also, make positive you examine back with the physician to make positive you're ok. i fairly had twin miscarriages, one got here out naturaly and the different did not. So merely make positive you're ok, doesnt damage to envision.
2016-10-17 11:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you should tell the father! You should also advise him to use protection as you should protect yourself especially if you choose to conceive outside of marriage. By the way, the thought and stress of having and caring for a child out-of-wedlock can very well contribute to a miscarriage. So tell the father since he had 50% involvement in your decision to "play house" for a day.
2007-03-11 18:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he knew that you were pregnant then you should tell him that you miscarried but if he didn't even know that you were pregnant then I don't see the need to tell him if it was only a one night thing and you two aren't together.
2007-03-11 17:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by Hope 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a tough one. I would say. if he never knew you were pregnant, then he never needs to know. But if your conscience tells you to tell him, then do it if you feel its right. If you think he'll react badly or wouldnt care, then dont bother. And Im really sorry for your loss.
2007-03-11 17:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by jpeg06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you still talk to him you may want to tell him, did you tell him you were pregnant?
If he didnt know you were preggo it would really depend on the guy and your relationship with him.
2007-03-11 17:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by marmarsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he never saw proof that you were preggo then no because then he might think you were striving for attention and totally back away from you and assume you a psycho but if he saw proof then hell yeah tell him ..and make up a reason it was his fault tell him he stressed you out or something....i'm a horrible person ..shoot me
2007-03-11 17:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by pixiedust_asda2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did not tell him you where pregnant then there is no reason to tell him you lost it
other than to cause him pain
2007-03-11 18:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys still talk then yes you should just make him aware of the situation.
2007-03-11 17:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Nicolle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it was his child also
2007-03-11 17:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by hollidayfun@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋