about love ( I mean love between man and women or man and man, women and women) Im not talking about love between brother and sister, or love between you and your dog. coz like I'm 19 and I havent fallen in love with anybody, yes I have been attracted to some people and I liked alot of them, but I have never fallen in love with anyone of them, so IM starting to believe that there is not such a thing as love. So tell me what you think.
2007-03-11 17:39:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
For me, love is when you find someone that makes you feel complete. When you look at them, you remember with each glance why you're with them. All they have to do is smile at you and you get butterflies in your tummy or your heart skips a beat. You get to the point where even though it is physically possible, you feel as though you would not be able to live without the person.
Does it exist? Yes. The hard part is finding the one TRUE love there is out there, because many people will try to make you think that they are that one true love, but you can usually tell rather quickly if they are or not.
You're only 19, you're young and you have a LOT of time to find that one. If I was you I would focus on school, focus on your future and turning your life into what YOU want it to be, so that way when you DO find that one you'll have yourself set up so that you don't have to struggle so hard to do everything including a loving relationship.
2007-03-11 17:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Siren 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is a such thing as LOVE, just not soul mates or anything
People will cheat on one another yea because thats instinct,u know? I love alot, I fall easily mostly and get hurt most of the time, but that was still love.
Forgive eachother, think no differntly about them if they do somthing wrong or stupid (still love them)
2007-03-11 18:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I only beleive that a man and a woman can
really fall in love. I am open about my feelings about
people who are gay. It's not to affend anyone, but I'm honest.
I met my first love when I was 16. It lasted several years, and
than I broke it off because we had both changed alot.
I made the right choice. I have been married once already
and divorced and I'm getting married again this year.
I know that as you age your needs change. You also see
things differently and more clearly. Love is not just a word.
It's about being totally honest without yourself and the person
your with. Never having to doubt them and putting them
first before anything and anyone else. If you don't feel that
for someone that's fine, but love does exist. It can be the
most important thing in ones life when they truely have it.
You got lots of time ahead of you so don't be in to much of
a hurry to fall in love, cause with love comes some
tough times to.
2007-03-11 18:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think your crazy. Ofcourse there is love, you do not ned to fall in love to realize there is love. Love is all around you. In this creation you are not guaranteed love, but you are guaranteed an opportunity to pursue happiness and love. Surely there is love somewhere in your life, your parents must love you, you can love friends, family, or your pets. I treat my dog like he was my little brother and my cat. Look at all the nice things, is not that proof of love, like the ocean and the stars, and women, and ice cream. You just need to get fired up about something. get pumped!
2007-03-11 17:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in love and I'm not sure if I believe in it. People abuse the term and it can be used as a weapon to control and manipulate. Not very cheery, but that's what I've observed. There's certainly no such thing as unconditional love.
2007-03-11 17:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love even though I haven't experienced love. Just imitation love, it wasn't real. But when real love come along I hope that I'm alive and well. Love is a wonderful feeling I know because if a person can feel great with imitation love than how great will real love feel. Love is out there awaiting you
2007-03-11 17:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes love is out there you will know when it happens by a few ways ..going out of your way for the person no matter what , just having a strange tingling feeling everytime u see,hear receive any type of communication..honestly your heart will tell you if you are in love.
2007-03-11 17:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pacman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do, I love my boyfriend with all my heart. You maybe just havent found the right person to fall in love with. You will know when you have though.
2007-03-12 01:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is an act of the will, a choice, the giving of oneself to another for their better good.
We all seek someone that loves us unconditionally this way.
The world would be a better place if we all sought to love others instead of seeking for others to love us.
I read it online somewhere.
Radical thought isn't it.
2007-03-11 17:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
-There are categories of love. to illustrate, the affection that I certainly have for my daughters isn't comparable to the affection that I certainly have for my husband. the affection I certainly have with my husband i might quickly describe as a mutual replace of know, admiration, kindness, and loyalty. the affection I certainly have for my babies i won't quickly describe, so i will only say this is all-encompassing.
2016-11-24 21:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋