2007-03-11 17:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by jsn_marek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is mine. We split up a couple of weeks ago, but it was for the best we needed some space. So she went back home and called me a week after and told me she was pregnant and wanted to know what I wanted to do. And I said we should have the baby and think about getting back together. But she is unsure of that now, and wants to make sure that its just not about the baby. I love her, and she means the world to me. I told her I will be there for her through it all. I am moving from Florida back to michigan so I can be closer to her, and so I won't miss the baby being born or all of the little things like seeing it for the first time on the Ultrasound screen and picking out stuff for the baby. I just want to show her that she DOES mean alot to me, and that I will do whatever it takes to be the best I can be. Any advice is very much apprieciated
2007-03-11 17:56:24 · update #1
Be supportive and listen to her.
2007-03-11 17:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really need to look at how your relationship was in the beginning before the baby..was there a special place you both when to or had good times at.... do something from the heart... that she know you've spent time thinking about and planning... also she will have plenty of hormones more then usual so be gentle and go easy... dont do anything that will make her think different of you... prepare a nice dinner for you too and make a night she will never forget!
2007-03-11 17:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pay attention to her. Ask her what she needs and if there is anything you can do for her. she's an ex so its kinda tuff. I would offer anything a foot rub, back rub, meal of her choice keep it focused on her. The baby does not need a foot rub or back rub . you see what I mean. Dont forget to also help with father things.
2007-03-11 17:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by D B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be there for her emotionally and physically. When she is moody you have to bare with her and listen to her concerns or fustrations about her fears with you. The only sure thing you can do is be with her and for her 100%.
2007-03-11 17:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you treat her would be enough to show how much you care...when you really care your actions alone are enough
2007-03-11 17:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just keep thing simple for now ,then you both can see
where this will go,
2007-03-11 18:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you forgot to mention about the baby, is that yours? wether yours or not if you really care her MARRY her
2007-03-11 17:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by cheung_crl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we need more details.
2007-03-11 17:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋