Wellx, friends and I planned her a small little celebration for my bestfrien'ds birthday, but it feels as she threw it in the trash can..and I barely have time to do it for her,but I sacrifice my time for her, but how can she just do like that..she has to go somewhere at 9:30 pm but can't she fold that a while..we'll get her a ride there..but that didn't happen...and I got upset and we argued a bit so yea, what should I do?
2007-03-11 17:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by S.H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is your best friend, huh? so even though i know that you are mad and upset that things went wary and feel unappreciated.... do you value the friendship and her as a friend? If you don't want to be friends with her anymore, then leave it that way. If you do, then when the air has cooled, and you are calm... call her and tell her how you feel... and how you tried so hard to put on the bestest party for her. That you don't want to lose the friendship over something 'petty' as an argument. Darling, I know that you are hurt, but sometimes we hurt others when we don't really intend too. Give the friendship a bit of thought. Do you still want her as a friend? if yes, call her and say that you are sorry that you guys had to have that argument... that since she is you best friend... you just want and wish things to be like they were...
2007-03-11 18:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by blueskies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, I know how it feels when u go thru all the trouble & put in that extra effort juz hoping everything wud work out the way u want it to for ur friend to have a great time.. ^^" & it wud juz break ur heart when thing dun work out.. & that sometimes happens...
therefore, everytime I make plans for my friends, I wud make sure they have time for it... sure sometimes, it does let the surprise slip, but as long as my friend makes it, then it is a success.. ^-*
but true, if I were u, I wud have expected my friend to show some compassion & apologise for not being able to make it & make me feel like its all worth it (or at least that its not a waste) eventho she wasn't there...
so, maybe wait a bit & let everything blow over... maybe she wud apologise... if she doesn't, & ur sure u didn't do anything wrong, then talk to her abt it.. but in a very polite manner tho.. ^^" however, in the end.. if u feel bad for doing it, juz say "sorry".. a little word can solve all the problems & headaches.. =p but dun do it too often...
gud luck & have a nice day!!~
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2007-03-11 17:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Serenity C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where there is luv there is fight also.but by ur question it is understood dat it was not ur fault.ya,u wud hv given her sum hint of d party so dat she wud hv adjust d time wid dat.don worry.e-mail her.or try to talk to her.nd start a new beginning.it's not such a major prblm.she may b also feeling wat u r feeling for her,but she may b hesitating to come forth.u must go nd start up wid light conversation.
2007-03-11 17:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular. only now, yo known her as your ultimate pal and you puzzled whether or no longer you ought to choose her satisfied birthday which potential you be attentive to you ought to. fights final some days, and a ultimate pal is your #a million.
2016-11-24 21:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bake her a cake or her favorite dessert, give her a gift, and apologize from the bottom of your heart.
2007-03-11 17:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apoligize and have her come 2 yr house for a party
2007-03-11 17:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by gtest11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw cake at her
then have a giggle fight.
2007-03-11 18:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Atlas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take her somewhere alone and talk...say ur sorry, and like just talk until ur done saying stuff ok
2007-03-11 18:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by secret admire_4u:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she matters to you than tell her you are sorry. plain and simple but it is effective to save a friendship.
2007-03-11 17:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i should get a life..stop acting all preppy..and handle it like a person..
2007-03-11 17:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Joel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋