My husband wants to move closer to his family, I don't.
2007-03-11 17:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get him to go with you and/or face what your running from.
2007-03-11 17:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by D B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might be a long shot, but here goes.....
You and your husband might be looking to "fill a void"..him with his family and you with "move far away"...
Somewhere/somehow there is something missing in both your lives...When you're both "full" and at "peace" you're more likely to a)see things on the same page b) not care as much, and want to accommodate the other persons desires. But, when you feel like "somethings wrong" or "somethings missing"...that's when you'll argue your own way more, rather than give in....
Again, just a thought....I might be totally off
Best wishes,
2007-03-11 17:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by C L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 16:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me that is VERY normal. I want to leave and run away from home all the time. Change my name to Jackie and live out of my car.
It happens, try to figure out why and see what you might want to change about your day that might be making you unhappy.
Maybe a short vacation might help.
Try and happy medium with hubby. Not so close to his family but at least driving distance for him if you do not want to go.
Good Luck.
2007-03-11 17:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a woman we always get the shitty end of the deal.Our husbands no they have us by the balls and they like it that way.They no we can't afford living without them.
2007-03-11 18:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to compromise and find somewhere you will both be happy. Neither one of you should be miserable. Try picking somewhere in between where you want to live and he wants to live.
2007-03-11 17:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...welcome to marriage. Sounds like a compromise is in order. You can't both get your way.
2007-03-11 17:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him a choice live near them or move far away with you
2007-03-11 17:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sorry i missed the question
2007-03-11 17:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋