ok my g/f and me are intimate and all and will evetually get to better things besides groping but not for awhile, but there is this girl in my class that i like alittle and i know that if i wanted to do thuings with her i could and theres a good chance that no one would find out i feel bad for thinking like this but everyday ill end up making jokes like hey lets go get a closet and she can see that im half joking half serious as can i and is starting to act on my weakness and soon i think that she will even influence me into doing things with her
2007-03-11 17:12:21 · 18 answers · asked by mxbadboy89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you havta reevaluate your feelings for your g/f. how much do you really care about her? if you and her are just sort of a "fling" and you know that you will be just fine w/out her, break up with her! life's too short! but...if she is really special, hold on to her. the other girl wont mean nearly as much to you if you realize how much you really care for your g/f.
good luck
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2007-03-11 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by *cUtEgRli* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should examine how you really feel about your girlfriend whether you really like her or it's just one of those sexual attrations. Second DON'T CHEAT. It hurts the person being cheated on. Talk to your gilfriend, honesty might get you into some heat but at least she'll know what page your on. Don't string her along either because you could be holding her back from someone who may be genuinly interested in her and not "a more intimate situation" And if that other girl knows you have a girlfriend and still flirts and is willing to give you more picture where she will be next month. Good Luck
2007-03-12 00:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by jadex7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I see, groping with your girlfriend will make you end up in a closet like R. Kelly? Well do this, before you have a long drawn out series, about how bad it hurts to pee; break it off with your girlfriend first, it's not her fault that you are a 'badboy' & can't keep your mind off the other, looser girl
2007-03-12 00:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat on your girl. If you do she might not be able to trust another man for a long time. Plus it just ain't right. You bein the boy, you're supposed to be the one that gives all your love to the one that's special to you and not with some ho on the side. That's all she is. Also, the sex won't be special at all. Stay with your girl but if you want to cheat then dump her.
2007-03-12 00:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend deserves someone better than you. If you don't want to be in a relationship (and it sounds like you don't or you wouldn't want to cheat) then end it with your gf. She deserves at least your decency to not cheat on her. Go hook up with the other girl if you want (only after you break up with your current bf) but I wouldn't suggest you getting in a relationship with a girl like that because she'll just end up cheating on you....on the other hand you two sound perfect for each other.
2007-03-12 00:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your girlfriend RIGHT NOW!!!!! you might hurt her but it will hurt her a thousand times more if you do what your thinking. And trust me she will find out girls talk and then they tell someone else and someone else. If you and your girlfriend were meant to be you wouldn't be even entertaining these ideas. So PLEASE save her the heartbreak and do the decent thing. Obviously the way you think of your relationship sex is most important, when she is the right one for you she is most important to you and hurting her is th elast thing you would want to do.
2007-03-12 00:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls can't influence you doing things with them. you might like to think about if that way so you dont feel bad for cheating but really its your decision. i think that you should either break up with your girlfriend or find out is this thing bewteen you and this other girl just physical attactiveness. just dont cheat on your girlfriend that is prob. one of the worse things you can do to someone
2007-03-12 00:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is your hormones thinkin not your heart.... your thinkin with the package in your pants... and you dont want to be doing that! if you are thinking of cheating then you basically already have.. the fact that you are considering is bad enough.. break up with your girlfriend if you plan on hookin up with this other chick... because if you dont you'll think that you can always get away with cheating... once a cheater always a cheater ESPECIALLY if you believe you wont get caught.... cause you'll keep doing it.... so dont break your girls heart.. break it off cause its obvious you are not 100% commited
2007-03-12 00:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by just_jemma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not control your urge than maybe your girlfriend is not for you... Sounds like maybe you should take a breather with your girlfriend and go and get laid or whatever it is you want to do.... Get back with your girlfriend when you are ready... if one of you or both are unavailable at that time, it wasn't meant to be.
2007-03-12 00:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mouth New Yorker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will even influence YOU into doing things with her? What? You have no control over this? It's HER fault?? I don't think so. If you don't want to cheat, you won't.
2007-03-12 00:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by s w 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋