I am so nervous when it comes to talking to this guy...?
I know for a fact this guy is crazy about me... but he doesnt know i like him yet... im sure hes realized the light flirting, but basically, the reason ive been so quiet about it, is because im one nervous wreck when im around him... what do we talk about? i mean, i dont want to talk about the usual everyday so hows life, conversation...how do i break the ice and start digging into his life and personality? i want us to get to know each other...any ideas? any good ice breakers or questions to ask to start an indepth conversatoni about love and life??
thanks alot!
2007-03-11 16:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should let him know your dying to go out to do something(aka hobbie, concert, new restaurant) and its the last minute and everyone else is busy and he would be doing you a big favor he decided to go with you. Or tell him a group of friends are going out somewhere and invite him, and maybe at the last minute all of your friends bale so you two end up going out by yourselves.
2007-03-11 17:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by joejoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i know what your going through now. Just act normal. Ask him about stuff his interested. For example, ask about football (if he's interested in it). ask him "Hey did you catch the game last night?" and go from there. It will give him the impression that your interested. Slowly switch the topics to something you can easily do. Just keep calm when doing so. Don't talk to long about it. Let him speak too! If you watched the John Tucker must die movie, you see the steps they made and you'll get the idea. not the dumping Tucker part k!
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2007-03-12 00:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't relax maybe you should try some breathing techniques,you know,chill out.You are wanting to dig into something,could it be Lust??I think possibly,if you want
to have more then a rolling in the hay,you need to find out about his interest,likes,dislikes,favorite people he admires or wants to be like,does he want children,or not.Like women or men or both,see what I mean, slow down.Ask questions and pay attention.Always be thinking,about getting to really know him,
and love him,not just he's soooo fine!!!I want to Diggg in !!!
2007-03-12 00:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2007-03-11 23:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Time@ Time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to be shy, you're going to lose any chance of being with him. You need to be assertive and ask questions or talk about what you know... If he is crazy about you, he will just enjoy that you are finally speaking to him... Lots of guys are shy too... someone has to start talking or another assertive woman will snatch him up.
2007-03-11 23:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Big Mouth New Yorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just going up to this guy. Have a smile on your face and ask him, how do I go about getting to know a sweet guy like you?
2007-03-11 23:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his passions in life are...sometimes the easiest ice breaker is to tell him about your passions and then its vegas baby!!!!!
2007-03-11 23:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by milo2angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of him nude : )!
2007-03-11 23:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋