My husband is a dolt and will not give me a Marital Allowance damn it..?

Question

And don't tell me to get a Job I have a Job raising his demon seedlings

Oh and I forgot to mention he makes mad money BECAUSE I helped support him through Medical school. And I adore my demons.... All I wanted was 1500.00 a mth

Answer 1

I think you are FOS.

This is from your 360 page:

I am 37 Live in Torington with my remote control holder and dog named Baby. I work FT for DMR/CRI and love my job most days. I like Country Music and just about all of the 70's. I can get into some Hip Hop and Light Rap. I don't have any children of my own and wish I did, I love my family and their children as if they were my own. I love to do just about anything outside, and all kinds of animals. I love sports and am an avid card freak and known gambler. Well thats me.

So according to your 360, you have a full time job.

Answer 2

Sorry, but I've got to tell you, Get A Job!

Almost all mothers work these days - join the club! And I'm sure a lot of them have "demon seedlings" too!!!

Grown women shouldn't be getting an "allowance" - 10 year old girls get an "allowance" from their father, adult women don't get an "allowance" from their husband.

Again, go out there, pick up the want adds, or go to craigslist and, like the old song says, "get a job"!!!

That's how everybody else makes money!!!

Answer 3

All you want is $1500 a month for an allowance? Geez, I can’t imagine why he wouldn’t give it to you.

You sure about the ‘mad’ (which I assume means ‘great’) money? I know a few doctors and by the time they pay taxes, malpractice insurance (which is sky high), and student loan payments (none of the ones I personally know managed to make it all way through school without getting some loans, even if they help from parents/spouses), they aren’t necessarily left rolling in money.

Answer 4

I think EVERY woman who stays home and raises the children and does all she does at home works harder than anyone who is employed out of the house! I know because I've done both and you most certainly deserve an allowance. He should be more than happy to let you go shopping or whatever you want, unfortunately some men, and women, just do not get it!

Answer 5

"demon seedlings" huh? your husband ought to show that little comment to the judge and see what he has to say about custody. You say you "supported" him through med school but yet you call him a dolt?

Answer 6

Now that's sad ! yet funny, are you separated / filed for divorce? what was determined when you guys started having
babies , for example: did he promise you an allowance along
with the household budget? did you agree to being a stay at home mom? If not , you do need a job. Best of luck

Answer 7

two words for you and your husband...couples therapy. you sound like you have obvious resentment towards your husband (and your kids). Maybe you should try talking to a professional about your problems. I do believe if you are a housewife and have no incoming money of your own, your husband should allow you some cash but make sure there aren't any underlying issues with your relationship as well.

Answer 8

Obviously from what you've posted in your 360 page and what you said in here, your lying about something somewhere.

If you want people to take you seriously, you need to be honest.

Sounds like you just like drama.

Answer 9

I was married to a man like that. I urge you to look up the wheel of power and control and see how many of the traits of abuse your marriage has in common. With holding money from a spouse is abusive. Good luck!

Answer 10

Well it is good to have a positive view of the world around you.

Perhaps you need to get away for a little bit. Tell him what you told us, and maybe he will understand.