cheated... and you have a history of not telling all the truth sometimes...would you agree to a lie detector test if its not held against you? just to clear your husbands head
2007-03-11 16:40:40 · 11 answers · asked by john l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, there are trust issues much bigger than a polygraph (which is nonsense) can resolve.
2007-03-11 16:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Panda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is that paranoid about you that he wants you to take a lie detector test, there is a BIG problem. First of all, even if you take it he's still gonna have the same doubts in his head because lie detectors aren't 100% right all the time.
Sounds like you could both benefit from counseling so you can get the issues in the open and deal with him. There is no reason he should be so paranoid.
2007-03-12 00:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that bad, you need to just move on. But to answer your question yes, if you are innocent you want to prove it, right? But seriously...don't you think there are some serious issues if you want your spouse to take a lie detector test?
2007-03-12 00:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I know of lie detectors, I would NEVER take a test. Honest people often fail and crooks pass.
2007-03-11 23:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case yes i would... I would want to prove to him once and for all that i was being faithful and not cheating. I feel this would be my duty as his wife to make things right by doing this for him so our marriage would be stronger and better for it and it would show him that i was trust worthy again. this would be the right and honest thing to do in this case i feel. I would want my husband to do this for me if it were him that had done this in the past and not always being truthful. Goes both ways ya know. I also would seek marriage counseling as well if need be with my husband so that we could heal and get past things and work on the marriage to make it a better one as well.
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2007-03-11 23:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah! I would do it everyday if he wanted me to, just to show him that I would never cheat on him and that I don't lie. What's the problem if you didn't cheat? It's hard to trust people. My husband use to trust people, but so many people screwed him over, and he just has some insecurities. I trust him, and he should trust me..I have two children that look just like him, and I am with them all day, who could cheat? I would tell him that you need an upgrade diamond ring before you do it though..lol
2007-03-11 23:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. They're not accurate.
2. A relationship needs trust. If he trusts you that little, you two need to call it quits.
3. Stop Lying!
2007-03-11 23:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy.
2007-03-11 23:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure because you could get over on the test. If you are a good lier you could past the test.
2007-03-11 23:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time for some counseling, Sweetie.
2007-03-11 23:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋