I had a few questions about the first time sex... I'm not planning on having sex soon, I just wanted some info about it.
I heard that first time sex really hurts a lot for girls because they aren't "streched out"... How much does first time sex hurt if you masturbate frequently? And how can you tell if you've torn your hymen?
2007-03-11 16:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by make love not war 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Not to sound perverted... but is there any way of really knowing that you broke your hymen (are there any signs if you look)
2007-03-11 16:48:00 · update #1
Everyone is different and has different experiences the first time so you can never really know what your first time will feel like. It can be painful or not at all. That could depend on the "size" of the guy someone is with, but it also has a lot to do with your anatomy as well. Some women say that they bleed when the hymen tears, some don't, but it isn't something that you will necessarily feel tear. My first time was very pleasant. I did not experience any pain or bleeding and my boyfriend was quite large, but I had friends who had completely opposite experiences. My advice to you is that when you are ready to have sex for the first time, make sure it is with a guy you trust and love and make sure he feels the same way for you. That way if you do feel pain or discomfort you will be comfortable telling him and you two can work together to ease any discomfort you may feel.
2007-03-11 16:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by pobrecita 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Sex didn't hurt me the first time, but I was a tampon user, so I'm sure my hymen was broken, and the like.
I have a friend who goes through a lot of pain every time she has sex just because she's very small.
I never have never really seen a hymen to know what exactly it looks like, but I believe if you bleed during sex that is your hymen tearing.
2007-03-11 17:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This totally depends on the person. If you have been using tampons, then you may have broken your hymen already. Sometimes it is just uncomfortable the first time. If you do break your hymen during sex, you may bleed a little, mostly just spotting.
2007-03-11 16:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by cerridwen1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not the girl, but I will say perpare yourself, relax...make sure the guy not rush in, tell him more romantic.... You should be fine. First time is very special, will be good memory.
2007-03-11 16:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Glen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probrecit ABOVE is correect.
2007-03-11 17:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋