we have been together for a while we have LOTS of problems im just tired of it and it has made me not love him. he tells me he loves me and i have to lie because he gets upset if i dont say it back. i feel bad and i know he will be completely crushed.
2007-03-11 16:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by ana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
say what my friend said
_______ iys over!!
now you can flirt with that ugly ****!!
lol
say that you just want to be friends
2007-03-11 16:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest.. lieng and beating around the bush isnt going to make anything better. at some point u will need to break up if these arguments are really annoying u as much as u say they are. but playing him on like that will only cause him to probably love u more. thinking ur relationship is getting better and better when acualy. u dont want it to move on at all. just let him know. go easy. and he will understand if u explain to him.
2007-03-11 23:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by lnk140 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest ... it's better sooner than later. Of course there will be bad feelings, but this is life, and it is a bigger tragedy to remain with someone you do not care for ... or mislead them to feel there is something when there is nothing. Yes, honesty is the best policy always. Good luck. Now, do the right thing!
2007-03-11 23:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just being honest? Crushed or not is better than being lied to and I know you wouldn't want to be done this way, would you? Now, sit that man down and tell him the truth and move on. Life is just too short, to be miserable....do not do this to you or to him. Good luck!!!
2007-03-11 23:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "Listen. I really liked you, but we are having to many problems. I just don't love you any more. We are going to have to break up, (or divorce, depending on what type of relationship you guys have) I am really sorry. We had a lot of good times together, but us isn't just right."
2007-03-11 23:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him and tell him that due to all the problems that you all have had that you dont love him anymore.Tell him also that you didn't mean for this to happen and that you hope he can go on as well as you.
2007-03-11 23:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just tell him...you don't want to drag it out.....let him know the truth. Just think of it this way...what if you were him and had no idea the person you loved didn't love you anymore....wouldn't you want to know and quick? Just tell him.. of course it will be hard, but he will eventually get over it.
2007-03-11 23:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mother_Of_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk about it. Lay your true feeling on the table. Why waste time with someone you don't love, set this person free and set yourself free.
don't live a life of lies.
2007-03-11 23:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say I Dont love you anymore!
2007-03-11 23:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better be crushed than both of you in an unhappy relationship!!!
If you don't mean it, you have to stop saying it!!
I know it's hard, but it'll fall all into place once you get started!!!
2007-03-11 23:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With words. If you are with someone you don't love be honest, and don't hesitate because in the end it will just cause more pain and grief.
2007-03-11 23:29:41 · answer #11 · answered by YouGotTold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋