my ex broke up with me aftha he made a song for his ex girlfrend?

Question

ok this is how it goes my ex bf made a song bout his ex girlfrend and he ask me to listen to the song and i didnt like it to much and ask him ifit was for someone special and he said no but then why he made it.?? and i dont understand why he left me afther ...i been there for him.threw thick and thin hes been thinking about dumb stuff like thinking about killing him slef and saying other stupid things i mean is he tryna get my attention to see if i kare of not? he ask me to leave him alone and i did..but then some how we started talking again and we alwaysz fight but when we were still togetha in person we neva fight...and i dunno why he ask me to leave him alone and still talking to me about this and that...i love him and kare for him but should i just be **** up and leave and never turn back?

Answer 1

I wish it was that easy. Fact is your suffering form a lack of communication in that relationship. Mainly you don't know what this guy is doing. He seems to be the one in charge of the relationship while at the same time isn't doing a good job of being in charge of his life. Not good for you. Doesn't matter what he is doing, the fact is you should be pretty knowledge about why or your relationship is suffering. That aside why are you doing this to yourself? Thats going to be the important question to answer. Your in love with a guy who isn't just emotional distance with you, but also himself. Not good, usually if a person hates themselves it makes it impossible for them to love you. Its a good listen to learn, people can take your pity all day long, but doesn't mean they love you for giving it to them. You guys also need something outside the relationship to keep it stable, thats why we have the whole idea of religion and marriage. It isn't because its the "complete truth of life" but it does show you how important purpose is to anything. You guys need a reason to keep it going, with out that your going to be a little at lost with each other. Just remeber it isn't as easy as having a kid with nor going to church, its something you guys talk about with each other tell the day you die, shoot its half the reason we get into a relationship isn't just because were lonely, but because we need more reason, more purpose to being here. If it isn't good enough to have you around, then leave him in other words, best of luck.