have u ever known someone whom ur close with but ur not in a relationship with but u still catch feelings...?

Question

for them and in your mind yall go together. and like when u hear him talk about things he did with other girls u get jealous and u get insecure about that person as if they were your own? i really hate that but i dont know what to do it drives me crazy and he knows how i feel about him and he feels the same way but we agreed to a good frtiendship no intimacy or lust thing, just friendz but i cant help the way i feel. what does this mean?

Answer 1

awww ><" u poor thing..
I know how u feel.. it means ur falling for him... but the thing is, u can't do anything abt it.. (u know that, don't u?)

as much as u might hate it (& we know u can't help how u feel) , but u juz can't do anything abt it... if u have already agreed to a good friendship, then it shud mean smth & stay that way... (it really depends if u value the friendship more or u really want a relationship to form...)

if u feel u really need to escape from feeling that way... then u shud probably take a break from him.. juz tell him u need a break & not see each other for awhile.. that way, u'd get time for urself & be able to hear urself think...

I really have been where u are.. trust me, take a break but still stay as good friends.. (if u think he's a great friend, then u won't wanna lose him...)

gud luck!!~

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Answer 2

im in the same situation right now. my feelings are strong for him but for some odd reason i feel we shouldnt be together. and plus i found out somethings i didnt even think about. some crazy stuff. but as for you maybe you have the "VIBE" plus you might not want to ruin your relationship with him do you?