I have been trying alot of methods to have a kid (birth kid) I do not want to be to old so should I go ahead and adopt a kid, before I get to old to have a kid or FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 16:12:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I dont know what wouldnt be right about it. It would seem like the perfect fit....you wanting a child and a childing who wants to be wanted by someone. Only someone self centered would not want to raise a child that is not their own.
2007-03-11 16:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never adopt a child older than 1 years of age child devlopemetal stage is reached at 3 never believe that 6 year old crap that is obsolete. I adopted a sibling group youngest was 4, 6. 10, Oh My God. I Barely live to this day to regret it. The adoption agency hid so much information from us. The now 16 soon to be 17 is Rad with homocidal ideations. the now 14 soon to be 15 is Bipolar with o.d.d. the almost 20 is a thief sczo. street pharmacutical I am sorry I can't help buit warn the World and I apolgise to the Decent adopted kids. Because out of the 5 two from a sep adoption 1 was a month old other was young as well those two Bring Me The World Joy.
2007-03-11 23:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by aftertherain24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course it is fine, alot of people respect and look up to people that do adopt,because it takes patients and courage and love to do so. The only thing is if you are trying to have a family now and you are thinking about adopting, you should go ahead and do so, I have heard it can be a long process, so if you decide yes I would go ahead and do it. If you are worried that you might be to old soon for kids. But nothing is wrong with adopting.
2007-03-11 23:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer this question for you! You must have the desire to adopt (believe me, just the desire to have a family is not enough)! You also need a spouse that has the desire to adopt! Look around online and get more information about adoption. A lot of websites have little sections that can help you decide if adoption is right for you! A great place to start is www.adoption.org (or simply enter a google search on the word adoption to find a million sites)! If adoption is right for you, you will find that it is an amazing blessing!!!!!! Good luck!
2007-03-11 23:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nurse Jacqui 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I found your question slightly amusing as well as being wonderful. Too many people today are trying to get out of pregnancy instead of taking in a child that might be better off in a home. I myself am the product of adoption, and I could not be happier. My parents have choosen me, and that makes it that much better. I was immediately accepted into the family and treated as a blood relative. So yes, I highly recommend it. There could be nothing more right. A good site to check out would be bethany.org. It is a christian site, just so you know.
Adoption has given me the greatest happiness. I could not recommend anything more highly.
2007-03-11 23:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and adopt. There's a ton of kids out there that need a loving family.
2007-03-11 23:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption if wonderful. There are many children out there in need of a family. I was adopted and so were my 2 children. Our birth moms gave us life and placed us for adoption. However, if you think that adoption is second rate, so to speak, to having your own child, then maybe I would wait= because your child could feel that. You must love that adopted child as your own. If you have any questions on ways to adopt please email me, would love to talk more.
2007-03-12 03:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very right. There are many kids alone with no family. You would be doing a noble thing if you adopted a child.
2007-03-11 23:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant have kids either that's when we decided to become foster parents, we at first didn't know what to expect having other peoples kids in our life but now that we have been fostering for two years and are about to adopt our first child it is pretty exciting and we cant wait for it to be final.
2007-03-11 23:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is right to adopt a kid cause they need to have a home and a family they need help so you should adopt a kid
2007-03-11 23:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the right reasons,yes,absolutely. I have friends that have adopted and then birthed their own kids!
2007-03-11 23:43:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋