We were together 3 and a half years.
I left as i needed to sort stuff out as had a friend whos parnter had just committed suicide and stuf with my parents wasn't so good.
He says he hasn't had anyone else and last night when i was there i said to him that he meant the world to me and i really and truly did want to be with him (he already knew all this)
He said he did not think it would work between us and i said i know we would work and he said "well i don't think it would at the moment *anne" as i have a lot on my plate at the moment.
He has told people when they have asked if we are getting back together he has told them " no not at the moment we are having a break".
He is interested in what I am doing and wants me to show him my results of the correspondence work I am doing!
He is quite happy for me to go c him & says he hasn't been with anyone else & he never will be!!
I am stumped and don't know what else to do to prove to him I love him that much. Any advice from u men?
2007-03-11 16:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so wilsav what do i do then?
2007-03-11 16:27:55 · update #1
I wish I could say something encouraging, but it sounds like he needs more time, if that will even help. I would say just back off a little and don't push. He should come around.
I lost the woman I loved 3 years ago, for similar reasons your guy lost you, and there is no hope left for us, she found away to move on with her life with another man and giving him a child, though I haven't, I still pine for her Good luck, but you should seriously, consider moving on with your life, time is too precious to waste. My love did, and she is happier for it, though it was at my expense.
2007-03-11 16:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u baby all he need is some support from u try to be more attentive to what he says being a good listener kan help u find out thing better
2007-03-12 03:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by antish_r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love comes from both parties you cant foce it on someone. lay low wait awhile may be he needs time if not face facts dont bring any more pain into your life.
2007-03-11 16:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE DOES NOT WANT U. U KNOW WHAT HE LIKES. U KNOW WHAT HE WANTS. IF U R NOT WILLING TO DO WHAT HE WANTS U WILL NOT WIN HIM BACK. U ALREADY KNOW WHAT 2 DO. U DONT REALLY WANT HIM CUZ IF U DID U WOULD DO WHAT IT TAKES TO GET BACK WITH HIM.
2007-03-11 16:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋