I have this friend, who I abesolutely like since I've met him. We beginning to get really close as friends, and he been telling people he likes someone. Sometimes I think it is me, because he sometimes acts different when he is around me, and I am too afriad to ask. When I told him I liked him, he didn't say anything at all. I am very confuse. Should I keep my hopes up, or should I just forget about it?
He is the kind of friend who is always there for you, and listens to you when you need someone to talk too, that is what I love about him. But I don't know, I also don't want to date him, because in his previous relationship with ends up breaking up and losing that person as a friend. I don't want that to happen. What should I do?
2007-03-11 16:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by Megan G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Leave it as it is. Don't spoil your good relationship -it's very rare. If he likes you, he will let you know.
2007-03-11 16:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by ivory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to play the game you have to roll the dice and take your chance like everybody else. You are just gonna have to suck it up buttercup and ask him if he likes you. I kinda have the feeling he likes you as a friend only. Now I don't know that for sure but you need to realize if you ask you might not get the answer that you want to hear and things might get uncomfortable between the two of you.
Question to you is:
Is a chance for love worth the risk of possibly sacrificing the friendship?
Personally I'd take the chance of finding love over losing a friend anyday. I can make other friends.
2007-03-11 16:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you break up, you'll remain friends, who knows? just take a chance if it's something you want to do. Make sure he knows that you want to stay friends even if you break up.
2007-03-11 16:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by rt1290 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who wear their hearts on their sleeves usually wind up with crows eating them. in other words, don't let this guy know that you like him. play it cool and slow. if he likes you, then you can be absolutely sure that he will wait around for you while you are keeping his head messed up.
2007-03-11 16:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by orange sky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't you just tell him to leave you alone?
then if he don't lower the boom on him and report him to the police..its what has to be done to a stalker
2007-03-11 16:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill...it takes time but....ur instincts are good...dont get ur hopes up.....
2007-03-11 16:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋