She loved someone else, and didn't love me any more.
So I've been miserable, for 6 months
Time to stand up for myself this time
Because she moved into my house, we did a lot touching kissing and physical contacts.
And now she moved out in case her current boyfriend find out she's living with me.
So I think it's time to take a revenge.
But the problem is, how do I tell her boyfriend without making her boyfriend tell her it is me who tells him.
Yeah, that's horrible, but I was being treated horribly. He doesn't want it? Too late, he has already done bad to somebody so he can not expect for good.
It is that guy who ruined my relationship to get my girlfriend. Now I'm gonna do the same to him!
What do you think?
2007-03-11 15:31:34 · 20 answers · asked by tellthemfromme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you should let her go, and move on with your life. the best revenge is to be happy and move on with someone else.
2007-03-11 16:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a bigger man to just walk away. Revenge is never an answer. You don't blame your ex for anything? If she would have wanted to be with you no matter who came along, she'd still be with you now. Please just let it go, it sounds like it is starting to eat you up inside and nothing is going to change anyway. I'm real sorry you have been so miserable, but once you can let it go and move on and find someone who deserves you, the better off you'll be. Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 23:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No revenge. Everybody goes through breakups.
I've never, ever, ever been through a breakup, though. You know why? Because I've never been on a date!
As you can imagine, I'm miserable. Now, knowing that that may be the result in the end, I'm still willing. So, at least you were with her while you were.
2007-03-11 22:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you feel this way. Let it go. It may only feel good for a moment. But end the end he'll find out how she is. Just focus on you and getting on with your life. And isn't part of the revenge of telling him, so she'll know you told him???
2007-03-11 22:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will it gain from you. I think you don't really have issues with him, I think it's with her and I think you need to tell her that unless she can explain her actions (because being a girl I know that we do think things through). Trust in the fact that Carma is a wonderful thing and once he goes hunting for the next girl she better not come crying to you. Good Luck
2007-03-11 22:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you just let it go. im sure it would be better for everyone if you would just be above all that. if this girl either doesnt want you or she doesnt want her ex to know about you, shes not the one for you, trust me. if she decided to leave with him theres nothing you can do to change her mind. she made her choice and obviousely you arent the one she wanted to be with. right now if you just find someone else who really likes you, you will be truly happy and make your ex jelous, since she`ll see what a great guy she lost.. that would be the greatest revenge
hope this helps:)
2007-03-11 22:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure take revenge. most say taking revenge never solves anything but that is a load of bull. take your revenge but i insist you plan it out very carefully because fate likes to play a game called reverse reaction. so if your going to take revenge make sure its well put together and nothing can come back and stab you in the butt, and i mean really plan it out because there is nothing more mysterious then fate.
2007-03-11 22:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by killedheart101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to take revenge, do it by sending her flowers at his house. That's funny! Of course, you probably should just not take a revenge. You should move on with your life instead.
2007-03-11 22:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by skip_pingstone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what,I think you want revenge on the wrong one,she's the one playing the games,Plus the best way to hurt him is to let him have her,although he's done nothing to you,wake up,she's doing him just like she done you,if you want revenge she's the one to nail.
2007-03-12 07:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you cannot make someone love you, sometime people change because of growth and maturity, what was grate then is not grate now! It happens...so if I was you... let sleeping dogs lay. move on I'm sure you will find some one who is truly worthy of you love and charm and will love you unconditional. Trust me on this one!
2007-03-11 22:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by coolwater792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋