we are going through a divorce and I dont want one cause I do love her even after all that she has done to me I want to tell how I feel but every time I try she wont listen and hangs up on me what should I do to show her how much I care
2007-03-11 15:25:20 · 7 answers · asked by danielkairijacob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
canot enough detail...who filed? why divorce. You can't change the way someone feels, you can't make them feel the way you want them to feel. all you can do is be nice, respectful and hope for the best....
2007-03-11 16:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? Stop telling her how you feel if she isn't asking. If she isn't asking, she's not that interested in how you feel. Face it, if she's heading out the door, and you're just telling her how you feel, you're just trying to use guilt to manipulate her into doing what YOU want. So stop it. Will this stop your divorce? Probably not (but I could be wrong), but YOU can't stop the divorce if SHE is the one asking for the divorce. Only SHE can do that.
SHE knows you don't want a divorce... since you aren't the one asking for it.
2007-03-11 22:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has she done to you and why does she want a divorce and out of the marriage if i may ask? Can you please give us some more details and info on this? Try writing her a letter and tell her how you feel. Why will she not talk to you? Give her some time too and who knows maybe she will want to talk to you again someday. What has she done to you to hurt you in the marriage and what have you done to her if i may ask?
2007-03-11 22:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need a little more info here....why did your marriage go south? what is it that she did to you? maybe send her flowers, offer to take her to lunch so you can talk (dinner might be too much right now), if you try and she still won't talk, then I would suggest for you to just let it be....i know that is not what you want to hear, but maybe it's for the best.
2007-03-11 22:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a way to show her, if she won't listen. Don't give up if you think there is a chance you can work it out.
Send her flowers or a card. Try an email.
2007-03-11 22:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to accept that it is over. Let her have what she wants (divorce) & move on.
2007-03-11 22:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her flowers with a card that says, "Please let's try to work things out, I love you!"
2007-03-11 22:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋