I lost the love of my life because i wasn't suitable for him and his parents have his marriaged arranged and i just want to know if he can be happy with what he is getting into. Thanks for your answers
2007-03-11 14:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he wants to be with you he could have told his parents about it. Maybe the parents will accept it and let both of you get married.
Then if he had an arrangement marriage, then he should forget everything about you and get on with his life with the new wife because there is no reason for him to turn back. He needs to live on and after all, they are a family already.
This is want I think, good luck.
2007-03-11 14:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling I am in love with a guy that was arranged and he is now married and expecting his first child. his wife is horrible she is not he one for him at all even the family hates her. Now I cant say anything to him about how I feel because I am afraid I would lose him as a friend. but he is all I think about.
2007-03-11 14:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by help 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry about your situation. My thought is that he will make the best of the marriage because of his culture & values.
It is you who must move on. Stop wondering how he'll do & take care of yourself. You'll find love again as many have after losing a loved one.
2007-03-11 14:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. sometimes character can make a difference. if she's good, it would be easy to be happy and content with her. if she's a submissive wife and if she can deliver whatever it is expected of her, then, it would be easy to like her.
if your b/f will make the most of what he will have...i think he can be happy...
im sorry for you, i don't believe in arranged marriage.
2007-03-11 14:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sir. have you ever bought something that u settle for? you don't take care of it that well, on the other hand if if you buy something that you really wanted you enjoy it a hold lot better. sometime the truth hurt but an ounce of prevention is better than pounds of correction!
2007-03-11 14:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by coolwater792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had his marriage arranged ?? why? what culture is he from you aren't giving anyone enough info to help you,,,, could he be happy,,,,,,,no probley not ,,,,,except he has a religion or he has arranged day to day events he is to follow.....Happy no probley not,,,,,yet he has to stay in tune to how he was brought up and what they expect from him..
2007-03-11 14:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by nc_debi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a question he need to answer not us!
Now here food for thought why would you want to be married to a family like his?
2007-03-11 14:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same situation right now. it is easy to say that you need to move on, but i have tried that and i know how hard it is. it's comforting to know that I'm not the only person going through this situation, if you want to talk about it just message me.
2007-03-14 18:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one in here has had an arranged marrige. This isn't India.
2007-03-11 14:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser. Forget him n move on.
2007-03-11 14:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Atheist Eye Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋