how come she dosen't trust me ?
2007-03-11 14:13:16 · 19 answers · asked by Ily!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
life is short.....forgive your friend.......the older you get the harder it is to find a TRUE friend
2007-03-11 14:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not say what the fight was about.It is always sad when best friends have a falling out.Maybe what you should do is step back and give it some time.Let things settle.Then in a few weeks after things are more calmed down,you can talk.Either on the phone or e mail.Hopefully you will be able to work it out and be friends again.She more than likely doesn't trust you cause she feels hurt.So give her some time.Things that were said in the heat of an argument are still fresh In her mind. If after you talk and she still doesn't want to be friends,then you did your best by trying to patch things up and just go on.
2007-03-12 01:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the argument about? Was it that bad that neither of you can't be forgiven? If it's something stupid, then apologize. I've had arguments with friends before, but because I care about them, I've taken the initiative to say I'm sorry, because I don't want to lose the friendship, even though I may be right.
If you take the first step to resolve the fight, then the other party might also admit fault, and both of you can cry on each other's shoulders and realize how stupid that little argument was. But if the other party continues to be resentful towards you... hey... at least you tried. Move on with your life!
2007-03-11 21:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Braddah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve the friendship, was it something you said or did? Fighting with your own best friend is never a good thing, was it over somebody? If you were wrong, call her & apologize or even write her an e-mail/note explaining that you were sorry & were wrong. If she, however, was wrong, then she may need time before she admits to it. Breaking off a "best friendship" over something trivial means she wasn't really your friend, but if you guys are truly "bff", so to say, then eventually you guys will resolve your differences. Just give it time.
2007-03-11 21:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dusk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that the friends always will need you, sometimes comes to bad fights, but the friend is first there for you when u need something.
It will be good if you forgive her, like this you grow the trust in her, she will see that u forgive her and she will never let again to have fight with you, and she will have more trust in you when you forgive her.
2007-03-11 21:20:57 · answer #5 · answered by AleXxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are best friends, I wouldnt let a fight get between the two of you. As time goes by, things will cool off and get back to normal. Just talk to one another. As for not trusting you, you should probably talk to her about that one.
2007-03-11 21:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by lacia2159 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, If best friends are truly best friends time will heal your fight. Some one is probably feeding her garbage about something she is insecure about herself of Which you are totally Confident in. Then she hears others gossiping which is only creating more insecurity and your getting the brunt of it all. Just relax and don't say anything bad about her to anyone KEEP A TIGHT LIP until it blows over If in fact you truly consider them you BEST BEST Friend.
2007-03-11 21:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by ABC242220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing has been happening with me and my bbf and we just talked it all out got all the bottled stuff out but don't ever lose a friendship over a fight. and if the issue is trust then you guys need to look deep down and find out why she doesn't trust you anymore. A friendship is o so impotant and you shoud fight with everything to try to save it.
2007-03-11 21:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by ~sweetness 101~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been best friends, I think you two need to "cool off" for a while and talk to each other. No matter what the problem is, you should talk it over, after you are best of friends right? Be cool.
2007-03-11 21:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should deffinetly talk to her again! if you dont you'll regret it! now i dont know what the fight was about but it was probably something petty and nothing to loose a friendship about so just talk to her about it, tell her why youre mad and stuff and hopefully everything will work out!
2007-03-11 21:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes things might just work out with each other andwhatever that thing that she does not trust u with tell her or show her that you are doing the best that you can to tell and let her know that you are not lieing!
2007-03-11 21:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by pamela t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋