this guy im going out with had a "thing" with one of his friends. but he has told me that he likes gurls better. and that he really does love me. what should i think about this?? i mean i care about him a lot but the fact that he cheated on me with a guy is a little weird
2007-03-11 14:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The fact that he cheated on your period should have been enough for you to move on no matter who or what he cheated on you with! To stay in a relationship where your partner has cheated on you means that you are asking for it again
2007-03-11 14:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first issue is he 'cheated' under your definition of the term. Male or female, he was with someone else.
The second issue is questioning his preference. It is possible that he likes both, and the fact that he told you (if he indeed did) is a step for anyone. It takes trust to do so.
Third, you mentioned you care about him a lot, and besides the cheating, if he were to tell you he had a same sex relationship years ago, would it matter to you? You should think about your answer to this question, aside from the fact he was with someone else while you two were together.
2007-03-11 22:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....I think you should leave him alone. Not for the fact of messing around with a guy but messing around period. He has some things he obviously needs to work out. Possibly you could be his friend until he works this out. It must have taken a lot for him to tell you this and I can imagine how much that hurt you.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 21:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to sound pervers.....ask him to share in the wealth. If not, tell him he is YOUR'S now. Cheating is cheating....
2007-03-11 21:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋