ok well i've done somethings and they were pretty bad... and me and my bffl's (since 5th grade) were still good friends... then one day (last week on Monday) they said they werent gona hang around me anymore cuz i am a BAD influence..... they also told their parents and the counselor at school what idid..... they say now that in order to be friends again.. i have to change all next week..... and they'll decide if they wanna be my friends.... i love them but i dont think whut they did wuz right.... if they r my TRUE friends... p.s. i said a lie really big lie and then told them it wasnt true.. and hen i gave some one a hj, and i WANTED to do drugs... but NEVER did...... i really need an HONEST opinion ;-) thx
2007-03-11 14:06:44 · 10 answers · asked by *Party_girl* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don"t think your question is as simple as you think. You have not only put yourself in an awful position, but your friends as well. HAVE you been a BAD influence on your friends? Is this the FIRST time that you told a big lie,and thought about doing drugs? What is with the hj?, I think your morals are unacceptable, and your behavior is way out of line. Maybe your friends told on you, to get you to see that you have some major issues going on. You stated, your friends said that you have to change, could they be trying to save you from self destruction? I do not know how old you are, I am assuming very early teens., I imagine your friends are not old enough, or mature enough to get you the help that you need, so they turned to adults. In my opinion, I think it would be a good idea for you to seek counseling. You are headed for serious trouble. You need to face the underlying reasons for your behavior, and poor choices that you are making. You need to learn to be responsible. Sorry, if you feel I was harsh, but you wanted honesty. Good Luck, get yourself together, do the smart thing, and take care of yourself.
2007-03-11 14:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to be around drug addicts. They want you to make a choice between them and drugs. If you love them like you say you do, you won't do the drugs. I'd say they were right on the money when they said you'd be a bad influence on them. They don't want drugs in their lives and they don't want you to go that way either.
2007-03-11 21:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are right. you are a bad influence. you had better start changing a lot of things before you end up in real trouble. lying is a way for people not to believe you when you do tell the truth. stop it now.
2007-03-11 21:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you have done. Apparently they think that you have been a really bad influence to go to the counselor and to their parents. They need to look out for themselves. Watch what you do. Even when you think that it is something small, it could be a huge influence on your life.
2007-03-11 21:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe this is a chance to take a good look at who you are and where you are going in your life. Maybe you're not worth hanging around. Take responsibility for your poor behavior and learn from it by not repeating it.
2007-03-11 21:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okayy w3ll if theyy were relly truely down for you as you are for them they wouldnt tell no one not on single soul they would have talked to you done something now there just takeing advantage of you so u can do anything they want u to do ive been there friends like that arent worth it life goes on other then that if u wanna do what theyy tell you to do you got issues
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2007-03-11 21:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ANA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friends are giving you a chance to clean up your act. If you want them to remain friends take it !
It sounds as though they are fed up with your B.S. and want you to know. If they weren't really your friends, they would just disappear out of your life and wouldn't give you a warning !
Smarten up ! Real friends are hard to come by !
2007-03-11 21:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Donald G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly if they did that i would just hit them... no true friends should judge each other by wat they do or want to do. they should help u ,or try to talk u out of it, and not tell u to change the way u r so they will be your friends again.. just stop being friends with them...
2007-03-11 21:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by emo_elmo_chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
true friends will never do that to you and will like you for who you are but also try to stop doing bad things. :)
2007-03-11 21:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to them and see what happens if they ignore u or be rude to u they aren't true friends.
2007-03-11 21:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋