Me and my best friend share a 3 year difference in our ages, we are both young males in our teens. We have never had any problems with our friendship, but there have always been people who have been jealous of us, simply because they do not share a bond as strong as ours. I have recently questioned my sexuality because of him, I have felt strong attraction towards him. I dont understand why this is, I dont think of myself as a gay person, but anyway thats offtopic. I have been going through my mind of all the past times when he has shown instances that he could be attracted to me. I just want to be sure. We enjoy everything together, and there are times when we get close physically. We touch each other and get close, but never anything conclusive enough to show actual love. Whenever I am not around him I feel I want him there. I wonder if he feels the same. All I want to do is to hug him and make him feel like I care for him, and I would like to think he felt the same. Can anybody help
2007-03-11 14:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you are questioning your sexual preference and that is understandable espscially as you's seem very close. Why not be subtle about it and ask him about a "friend" of yours who thinks he may be attracted to another friend of yours and see what his thoughts are on gay relationships. The question though is are you really attracted to him in that sexual way as you say you aren't gay but if you are having as strong a feelings as what you have written on here then my guess is that you are leaning towards a gay relationship with your mate. Everyone to their own preferences.
2007-03-11 14:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it is natural to feel strong feeling towards our best friends, but don't be confused. It may not be love. It may be more of a mental more than physical attraction. If you have any doubts you should ease into a conversation and talk it out with him. Maybe he feels the same way. You won't know unless you talk to him. Good luck
2007-03-11 14:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just bring up homosexuality as a topic just to get his views on the matter. If he is against it then you know what you have to do, but if he shows a genuine interest in it then go from there. Good luck!!
2007-03-11 14:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he is feeling the way you are because if he isn't then you will have lost a great friend. But hey, if you guys get close then take it up a notch and accidentally, but purposely get closer! :) Good luck!
2007-03-11 14:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, go find a woman, lol!
Then you won't have to worry about this.
Unless you are wanting it, then only way you can be sure is to ask? No-one can read minds, of course!
2007-03-11 14:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats i think u just figured out ur sexuality
2007-03-11 14:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by amber j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what exactly do you mean by you 'touch each other'?? And do you know if he's gay or not?
2007-03-11 14:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by lolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....I cannot relate to that at all. Sorry....
2007-03-11 14:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋