£2000).Now her sister is ill and wants her to go and join her in Belgium. The thing is I love my girlfriend so much and I don't want her to go and I also have this trust problem with her staying in touch with her ex. I know she doesn't love him anymore but she wants her money back. What should I do? Should I Stop her from going to belgium to stay with her sister and cut all contact with her ex or am I just getting paranoid over things? Help me please
2007-03-11 14:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by nesbert m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are a lot of circumstances that might make a difference with your problem. It would depend on the reasons why she keeps in touch with her ex. Are there children involved? If he owes her money she needs to get in touch with her attorney and have him handle that. Some couples split up but become better friends than they ever were, and just that. Nothing more. I think it's time for you to do some soul searching. You either trust her or you don't. If she feels the same way about you that you say you feel about her then things should be fine. Hold on loosly. A relationship will never last if one of you is being smothered. Good luck!
2007-03-11 14:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that after knowing someone for 6 months that you can come between her and her sister? I think you are enjoying the benefits of her company but I doubt that you love her, or you would not presume to run her life.
2007-03-12 12:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex owed me money and I contacted him and his gf fliped out. I now think she is crazy. Obviosuly there will be a connection with her and him until the money thing is resolved.
Dont turn out like my ex's gf, all it did is make her look insecure.
2007-03-11 21:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stop her. You are being paranoid and controlling. If she's going to leave you for someone else, there's no stopping that. I feel for you BUT you need to relax.
2007-03-11 21:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't stop her, if u do it will only create resentment towards u. got to trust her, and have faith in her. it is normal not to want her to be in touch with her ex.
2007-03-12 12:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋