I just wanted to know because I have a 14 month old. And one on the way, I wanted to know how do you manage. Because I really need to know.
Thanx!
2007-03-11 13:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by T. MiLANi 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Lucky for me my kids are 5 years apart. I am 21 and it is tough. One thing you have to remember is to leave a little time for yourself. If you have a relative nearby that can take them for a little bit take advantage of that. I sometimes find myself just being a mommy, i have to realize that I need to keep me as a person alive as well. I used to feel selfish at first but I realized that it made me a lot more relaxed and fun to be around when I actually did "me" time. Good luck!
2007-03-11 14:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by kainsmommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m 30 and have an 11 year old ,a 8 month old and I`m 19 weeks pregnant and due Aug. 3 !!! I have a big gap in between 1 and 2 so it`s not bad...But I`m sure that will change when #3 comes along !! It all depends if your a stay at home mom, if you have a partner or family to help out!! Good luck and congrats!!
2007-03-11 22:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and i've got three kids. A 4 year old, a 22 month old, and a 3 month old. There are times when my two sons are really wreckin my nerves so i send them over to my mothers house for a little while, that way i can take a breather and have some time with my 3 month old daughter. Don't worry though i'm pretty sure you will be able to handle two very small children.
2007-03-11 21:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by kittykattay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 22 and my husband 20, we have a 3 year old boy, a 18 month old boy, and a 3 month little girl.my nerves are crazy and i do lose my cool but the easiest way to calm yourself is to go into another room and take a breather. i promise they Will be fine for a few a mins w/o you. try your best to get the simplest routine you can get. if you change one change them all. routine their naps together so you can get some quite time, and bathe them together. they are all major time savers!
good luck!
2007-03-11 22:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by kchase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Managing?? You absolutely positively need to make sure you get 2 or 3 breaks a week for about 2 hours or more...... just for you to relax!!!
That's probably the most important thing. (To begin with, of course). The rest?? I'm sure you'll get plenty of advice from other people!!!!
2007-03-15 18:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i am 24 years old and i have a
4 1/2 year old son
3 year old daughter
14 month old son
and a 12 year old step-son
and its all a matter of routine and postive attitude and lots of fun activities.
2007-03-11 21:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by vkewl182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 with 3 ..but the 1st one was born when i just turned 18
2007-03-11 21:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by jessicadavid p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend does...and they are a year apart her kids..she manages pretty good...and her man left her...so she is in a tuff situation but is doing good..she was better with out that fool anyways
2007-03-11 20:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by BaZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋