does non civil,mean no rights?totally?

Question

iwas in a relationship for over 12 years,my partner died suddenly&recent ,his next of kin was informed of death,but refused to accept body?and lied to the coroner,washed there hands of responsibilities(as not spoken to my partner for over 12 years) forcing me on state benefits to fully pay for funeral costs? yet im a legal no-body in the eyes of the law{bloody blairs stupid civil riubbish)my local council accepted i was in a relationship & prvided me with our home weve shared together as a right to succsession,tenancy. my partner had 3 pensions-private. which can only be claimed by the next of kin? even if there was no contact? im beyond confusion,im so lost-my world has fallen apart at 31.im alone ,seriously in debt,and on state handouts-entitling me to nothing as im receiving incapacity benefit only? ireally feel like laying myself to rest along side my partner,as no future prospects.im emotionly drained.please can anyone help?..................

Answer 1

aww that so sad. I am so sorry. Just try to foget bout it. Its over and ur hubby is in heaven.

Answer 2

Firstly u have my sympathy at this sad time.Things will get better eventualy,you have 2 give urself time 2 grieve.As for ur financial problems,I would start off by visiting the Citizens Advice Bereau.Its free,U can tell them ur situation & they'l advise u of any help u can claim, money or legal advice wise,where from & how 2 do it.They'l also help u fill out any paperwork & point u in the right direction for any help u need on just about all financial & legal matters.If ur on benefits u should get legal aid ,if u need a proper solicitor the C.A.B. will advise u on that aswell.Go & c them & they'l advise u what the best thing 2 do is.Also u can get grants from D.S.S. specialy 4 funeral costs.U should b eligible as ur getting Incapacity & u were down as his partner(u dont have 2 b married 4 the DSS 2 class u as a couple ,just claiming as a couple b4 he died).Its worth claiming,it doesnt take long & they can only say no in which case uv lost nothing.Things will get better with time.U could try grivance councellig,theres an organisation called CRUISE,look ur local group up on the net if ud like 2 talk 2 people who r or understand ur grief.Hope this helps.

Answer 3

you need to go to your welfare rights office, they will help you find out what you are entitled to... and then make an appointment with cab who will help you claim any thing of your partners and even help supply a solicitor if necessary, once you have sorted these things you can then start to remember the good times with your partner and try and move on with your life, i know you must be feeling rock bottom at the minute but hopefully things will start to look better, i think you might need to pop in at your docs and discuss how you are feeling so that you don't go into a deep depression, I'm so sorry about your partner and i do hope you get things sorted, good luck x

Answer 4

I am terribly sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine losing someone so dear and then facing the issues that you have. I can assure you that your partner would be awful proud of you. A part of him still remains here, it lives within you...and you have the power to keep that alive. Let the love that he gave you in his life be the fire that continues to burn even in his passing, give him a legacy worth having. Let his life serve as a pillar of strength for you and continue on as he would have liked. You have him with you, in your moments of despair and in your moments of happiness, he is there, embrace that. I know life is hard right now, but possibly he planted a seed in you that is meant to touch someone else at some later date. Please keep your chin up and don't give up.
Things will get better!

Answer 5

OK firstly consult a no win no pay lawyer.

Secondly 12 years as a defacto wife gives you rights you just have to fight for them.

BTW everybody reading this get a will.

Hang in their, what seems like the darkest of days always has light. You have choices you just havn't looked into them. Sell the home get a mobile home make your living cheaper..it can be done ppl have done it and so can you your strong.

Answer 6

i'm non-veg because my father and mom were non-veg. yet now when I examine a truth of LORD BUDHHA , I particularly have rather a lot stopped eating non-veg. LORD BUDHA stated--- U have taken thousands of thousands of rebirths on the earth. such truly some cases those lambs or pigs or fowl were ur father, mom uncles or babies. Why to eat flesh of ur father and mom etc.? Swami Ramdev explains -- even as u get offended , u start up sweating, start up trembling etc, even as u are afraid , u start up sweating , trembling etc. Why ? because there r secretions of harmones etc. interior body. So u can understand the way many undesirable secretions ensue even as an animal is killed . eating this kind of flesh is amazingly undesirable for psychological well being. Now u see such truly some swine/cow/fowl -flu etc are spreading using animals. with the exception of Nature has no longer made us to eat non-veg. because a non-veg eating animal has very lengthy gut to digest it yet v have small one. V do no longer have teeths like tiger. All non-veg eater animals drink water by technique of tongue yet v drink like cow.

Answer 7

Work out you life , I hope you find a way out because it sounds like your in a mess.
Please accept my condolences.