I don't think I was born Bi-Curious this is something I picked up when I was in the 11th grade of highschool.
2007-03-11 13:42:47 · 22 answers · asked by Girly♥ 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go you for "picking up" your bi-curiosity.
For the majority of us (and yes, there are those who choose to be gay, but most don't) we never woke up one day and thought, "Hmmm...today would be a wonderful day to become gay!" There was, in all likelihood, a chemical imbalance at birth which we *couldn't* control.
2007-03-11 13:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
I was born a lesbian. I did not act on it due to my family and the whole coming out thing, but I have been attracted to females from the beginning. To say that you haven't been born that way may be true, but that's not to say that someone else hasn't. I'm not sure if anyone is born bicurious but I pass judgment on nobody.
2007-03-11 13:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it has to do with chemicals in your brain. Pheromones make you attracted to who you are attracted to.
I had a girlfriend when I was five. I think you are born gay/bi/lesbian/transgender.
There is also the theory of reincarnation, which is like, you may have switches gender between lives and haven't fully let go of parts of it or what not.
2007-03-11 13:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by a seeker 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You picked it up in a time in your life when relationships, sexuality and partnerships are important. You found out at a time in your life when you would need to know. Most 5 and 6 year olds mimic play and are set in gender roles by their parents. As you become older and more independent (not to mention completion of puberty), you have more options. It's through these options that you discovered something that has been in you - since birth.
2007-03-11 15:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are born straight, gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Bi-curious IS something you develop. It's a curiousity, hence the name. it's not a preferance.
2007-03-11 14:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, you were born that way. Researchers do not know much about homosexuality and biology, but they do know that homosexuality is most likely genetic, but based on the fact that most people do not know it when they are born, perhaps it is like Huntington's Disease, which is a gene that is not expressed until later in life.
2007-03-11 15:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by lazerybyl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's your opinion. I don't understand how you can choose to be bi-curious, just as you can't understand how other may be born a different way. To each their own.
2007-03-11 13:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by hs329 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Things come to different people in different times.
People don't hit puberty at the same time, why would you think it would be elsewise for the rest of sexuality?
Which is not to say i KNOW people are born gay or not, i am, however, inclined to think they were.
The notion that so many people would choose to be riduculed , reviled, and demonized by so many others is not that likely to me.
2007-03-11 13:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Does of it really matter? I do what I do because I have the freedom and right to do so. Whether I was born this way, or because things happened to me in my life that contributed to me being this way, or if I do it just because I like it is not the point. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone.
No one is free till everyone is free.
2007-03-11 14:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by ramblin' robert 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just part of you, you can't really change who you are its like I'm born with brown eyes I can't change that. Some time its just takes awhile for some one to realize what they are.
2007-03-11 14:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋