I have met my best friend since the 3rd grade and we are currently seniors. High school year are supposed to be the best years of my life but they really aren't. I love hanging out with my friends but they are all skinnier than me and they are all gorgeous, but my best friend is the one i am jealous of the most. Not in a bad way but she always talks to guys and always getting numbers and stuff. Guys never talk to me. I am the "fat one of the group" though i am not even overweight. like 135, 5'4'. She dresses in new clothes everyday and looks cute all the time. My friend is always telling me how she meets hot guys like every day where i am still stuck without anyone. I want to tell her how i feel but i don't want her to feel bad for me and i don't think there is much i should do. I want a guy to care about me and like me for who i am inside ( cuz' the outside just isn't cutting it!) anyways in terms of my friend what should i do.? Explain.
2007-03-11 13:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by hey! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah and i love her like a sister... she always tells me that if i was a les that she would 'do' me! this makes me even more jealous....
2007-03-11 13:35:50 · update #1
hahaha firebabz...
2007-03-11 13:40:13 · update #2
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2007-03-11 13:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have 2 options - either keep quiet and learn to deal with it and realize you are wonderful and have no need to be jealous, or talk to your best friend about it.
What people are attracted to more than anything is confidence and the way you present yourself. You sound a little down on yourself and insecure with your appearance, which people can pick up on right away. Once you start to love yourself 100% and don't care what people think, you are going to portray a picture of someone who is confident and happy - which will change how people interact with you.
But, if you want your friend to know how you feel then talk to her. You guys have been friends for a long time and you should be able to talk to her about how you are feeling. Just don't try and guilt trip her or anything to that affect, because odds are she isn't doing anything on purpose.
2007-03-11 13:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be jealous of your friend just because she wears new clothes everyday and the guys always talk to her. Your not even fat. Just thick..nowadays many boys like that. Just be patient...there someone out there that wants to be with you. Dont tell her your best friend your jealous of her because that might ruin your friendship
2007-03-11 13:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by ladyboobie_615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying. Instead try to take care of yourself, but trust me its hard, I know how you feel. But remember jealously can drive a person to do the most craziest dumb things, take control and don't let it get to you. I really understand how you feel cuz I'm overweight but not a lot but I know how it feels. Trust me you'll make it through, just **** them. Don't listen to their bullshit, you'll make it. What you go through will make you stronger, thats if you hold on. just show that it doesnt bother you. When you think good of yourself, they will see that you don't give a **** and they will notice you. Don't go searching for the right one, let him come to you. TRUST ME he will.
2007-03-11 13:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by horrorbaby69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an analogous experience with my acquaintances additionally. they have stopped calling me because of the fact i cashed out on black friday and that they could no longer have adequate money an 5 greenback DVD. i grew to become into unhappy because of the fact they have been ignoring me because of the fact they don't have money because of the fact they preserve thier boyfriends. i might advise you to kill them with kindness and in basic terms seem for brand spanking new acquaintances on an analogous time. they're defenetly jealous of you.
2016-09-30 13:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to get over herself. it is natural to feel this way about a friend, but realize that she has imperfections too.
and your right for wanting a guy who will take care of you. the guys that your friend gets only like her for her outside.
2007-03-11 13:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide in the shadows
change you're perspective of yourself and your life
If something is not working just change it up a bit
become more social, screw it just wing it.
2007-03-11 13:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by OneLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u comprare yourself to others, You will become vain,and bitter, for always there will be greater, and lesser persons than yourself.
2007-03-11 13:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by nemraC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont try to be like your friend be different. get your own light and you will get your own shine
2007-03-11 13:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by nadi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go lez and be her gf.
2007-03-11 13:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋