I had a very tough time during my formative years. I was sexually/mentally/physically/emotionally abused by a step brother as a child for several years.
School mates made me "the kid to pick on" from 4th grade to 9th grade. (remember that kid? it was me)
I was date raped as a young adult.
A few things from my life that I believe make me the reclusive weirdo that I am today. Where can I find the confidence to be a part of the world I am in again?
2007-03-11 12:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Sereny 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have to love you for you.
Find a way to become 1 with you.
Isolate yourself from everyone for a while so you can pull yourself together. Then, when you are ready, simply allow others to contribute to your happiness, but no-one can ever take away.
2007-03-11 13:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The date raping happens with many females. They
usually feel shy to expose such intimate details.
The best way to increase self confidence is to accept
fate whole heartedly. Persons may harm you or you may
have harmed some persons. But Almighty is Infinite
Consciousness. He is beyond things like this which are
human in nature. May be he wants to help you this way.
Acceptance of fate is acceptance of Almighty whole
heartedly. It some one has done injustice to you, He
will do the right justice to you.
And remember one thing. Nothing can happen to you
without His permission. It is only when you become
a part of the world, only then you will become a part of Him.
2007-03-15 00:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to look within. Join therapy, there are alot of free clinics around your neighborhood, just search or ask your physician. You also have to know that none of this was your fault, that u never deserve anything that happened to you and believe that you've suvived all this pain for a reason. If you believe in spirituality thats a great plus.
2007-03-11 13:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by endearingstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check out http://www.shynessexpress.com
it used to have great techniques to increase confidence
Hope it helps you
2007-03-11 13:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Therapy is a sign of strength. "God" put therapist on the earth so they could help you. You've had a hard life and a therapist can help you learn to rethink and evaluate. Good luck. I'm so sorry you're in this kind of pain.
2007-03-17 03:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to accept Jesus as your Savior. WHen you kow that you are accepted by God, this gives you the ultimate self-confidence.
2007-03-11 13:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show your confidence by asserting your own athority be your own person.Look in in mirror and tell your reflection you are a strong willed person
2007-03-18 06:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the rape crisis center in your city and tell them your story. They will refer you to a therapy group.
2007-03-16 00:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋