2007-03-11 12:48:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
my aunt and my cousin did something to me 25 years ago and I have not spoken to them since
2007-03-11 13:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I attempt to no longer carry grudges. i'm specific that I even have some someplace approximately something. Hurts possibly no longer likely grudge. Getting even doens't paintings. Takes too plenty power. i attempt to settle on if something is going to remember in 5 years. maximum issues are unlikely to remember. I on occasion provide myself a time to hold each and all of the terrible conversations in my head and then pass on with my life. It would not consistently paintings yet at last i'm getting to the place i must be with the situation
2016-12-14 16:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness usually comes easy to me, but that is in most cases.
It really depends on what the person does to me. I mean, it it was really bad, I'd hold a grudge.
For example:
A guy dumps me = forgiveness
The guy cheats on my for a playboy bunny= grudge
A person runs over my cat on accident= forgiveness
A person murders my mum= grudge
2007-03-11 13:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is a decision. I choose to release my anger into God's Hands.
That's not to say I'll ever TRUST that person again, at least not until I've seen evidence of change in their spirit.
2007-03-11 12:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The anger never seems to stay very long but the hurt lasts forever.
2007-03-11 15:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to hold grudges...let them fester in me till I couldn't see straight anymore.
Then I met this angel online and she showed me that forgiving isn't all that bad.....
2007-03-11 13:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by Einstein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says if you do not forgive he wont forgive you either so well, forgiveness comes pretty easy for me right now!
2007-03-11 12:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll forgive, but I won't forget. I'd keep making the same mistakes over and over if not.
2007-03-11 12:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by girlsincamelot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I unfortunately hold a grudge...
2007-03-11 12:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Half of the time, I forget what I was mad about, talking about, where I was going, wait. . . what was the question?
2007-03-11 12:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by LA Law 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋